169 - Narcissistic Parents, Relationship Relapses & Trauma Bonds w/ Jerry Wise
Adult Child
Andrea
4.9 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 3 July 2024
⏱️ 72 minutes
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Summary
Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a marriage and family therapist, addictions therapist, ACOA expert, and codependency expert with over 40 years of professional experience. As a self-differentiation and relationship systems coach, he uses his knowledge in family systems theory to help clients get unstuck from family dysfunction and find a true sense of Self.
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9:10 - How "recycling" old coping mechanisms and relationship relapses can happen even years into recovery
17:32 - The struggle to leave an abusive relationship
37:31 - The impact of family-systems trauma vs big T trau
40:07 - The depth of self-hate and the annihilating influence of narcissistic parents
1:00:57 - How To Navigate Relationships with Aging Narcissistic Parents
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| 0:00.0 | Families can rip the self right out of you, but as adults we can put it right back in. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Andrea and this is adult child. Yeah, yeah, now. Yeah, now. |
| 0:13.0 | Yeah, what you're holding on. |
| 0:15.0 | What you're holding on to, |
| 0:19.0 | just let it all go. |
| 0:22.0 | What's making you slow now? |
| 0:24.0 | Let it all go. |
| 0:25.0 | Welcome back to adult child, where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family. |
| 0:33.4 | Ahoy, my dear shit shows. |
| 0:37.4 | For any new listeners, my name is Andrea. |
| 0:39.8 | I am a total and complete shit show. I am a recovering alcoholic. I am a total and complete chit show. I am a recovering adult child. I am a |
| 0:45.0 | recovering adult child. I am a condiment whore. Also two if you're new here |
| 0:52.2 | go back to the beginning. I go through my entire story in the first I don't know 10 or so episodes |
| 0:58.4 | that is also where I lay a lot of foundation of what an adult child is as well. So today we are diving deep with returning |
| 1:08.1 | guest Jerry Weiss, he is a family and marriage therapist. He is a family systems coach. |
| 1:17.2 | He helps those who grew up in a narcissistic dysfunctional or emotionally immature family. He is a fellow adult child himself. |
| 1:28.6 | I will call him a a fellow recovering shit show. |
| 1:32.8 | I think he'll be okay with me saying that. |
| 1:35.0 | He is a wealth of knowledge. |
| 1:37.6 | I will include the link to his first episode |
| 1:41.0 | in the show notes, which is where he goes more in depth in his own personal |
| 1:45.9 | story but we're talking about a whole bunch of things today we're talking about I'd |
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