Hello again and welcome to 4-play radio sex therapy. I'm your host certified

sex therapist Lori Watson author of wanting sex again and blogger as

Psychology Today and web MD and I have with me Dr. Adam Matthews

my co-host who's a couples therapist psychotherapist and president of

NCAMFT. Forplay is dedicated to helping couples keep it hot.

Thanks for listening now on to today's topic.

Lori, it's our favorite podcast that we get to do,

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been trying to keep up we sometimes get three plus letters a day.

And we're thankful, please don't be offended if we don't get back to you.

It is overwhelming.

We are blessed to feel your support, to feel your trust that you want to talk with us. We try to use these

episodes to answer some of your questions, but we thank you. We just can't at

this point now answer all the questions and I read every single one I just don't have time to respond

to every single one at this point yeah so thank you for those and and we will try to

use as many that are varied in this Q&A section.

All right, so our first question comes...

And we never use real names.

Never use real names from someone we're calling Katerina and she says,

I was just listening to the

podcast about the vibrator that was a good one with a vibrator or even with manual

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