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Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer

167 | Why Do I Feel Bored in Prayer?

Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer

Phylicia Masonheimer

Theology, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Religion

4.9 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2026

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Why does prayer feel boring sometimes? If you've ever struggled to stay focused during prayer, felt distracted, or wondered why some Christians seem so enriched by prayer while you feel disconnected, this episode will bring clarity and hope.  Phylicia explores four key reasons why prayer can feel boring—and what to do about it: spiritual warfare (the enemy doesn't want you praying), overstimulation (we're unused to silence and stillness), request-based vs. relationship-based prayer, and duty-based habits that lack intimacy. Scripture shows us that showing up consistently creates the intimacy we're looking for—discipline leads to joy, and action precedes feeling. Shop Prayer Resources Every Woman a Theologian Shop: https://phyliciamasonheimer.com [https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/] Spring Shop launches March 12 with new prayer-focused resources and more. Watch the full Verity Podcast Prayer Series: https://www.youtube.com/@veritypodcast Subscribe to Verity Podcast: https://apple.co/veritypodcast Verity Podcast is an Every Woman a Theologian company. We believe every woman should be a theologian—every woman a student of the heart of God. Order Every Woman a Theologian: https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/product/every-woman-a-theologian-hardcover/ New Release: Who Is Like Our God? Amos & Micah Bible Study https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/product/amos-micah-bible-study/ Follow along: Substack: https://phyliciamasonheimer.substack.com [https://phyliciamasonheimer.substack.com/] Instagram: https://instagram.com/phyliciamasonheimer EWAT Instagram: https://instagram.com/everywomanatheologian Subscribe for weekly biblical theology, spiritual warfare teaching, and practical guidance for growing in discernment and confidence in Christ.

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I just have to think that God deserves this.

0:02.8

My little offering to him is just my full attention.

0:06.2

If I'm like, well, my to-do list is more important.

0:08.2

Or my phone or Instagram or whatever, I really think we need to reckon with our inability to sit with God.

0:22.8

Welcome back to Verity Podcast friends. I'm Felicia Masonheimer, your host, founder of

0:28.1

every woman a theologian, the ministry attached to Verity Podcast. We are in the middle of

0:33.5

our prayer series, answering questions that you submitted to us about the nature of prayer,

0:39.0

how to pray, how to make prayer a habit. And this is episode seven. Why am I bored by prayer?

0:46.7

If you have ever been bored when praying or struggled to stay awake or struggle to focus

0:52.0

during prayer, you are not alone. This is a very common

0:55.9

struggle, and I would argue that every Christian walks through a period of boredom in their

1:00.5

prayer life at some point in their Christian walk. So why is it that some Christians seem so

1:06.6

enriched and empowered by prayer and others seem to be so bored. Well, so often what this reveals

1:14.4

is an underlying theology behind prayer. Our understanding of what prayer does, what it's able to do,

1:22.3

what God has asked of us, really plays a role in how attentive we are to it. If you think about the things that you

1:29.9

love to pay attention to, the things that just are riveting and keep you tuned in,

1:35.3

there are things that you find interesting, intriguing, or that you think are extremely

1:40.5

beneficial to you, are accomplishing a purpose. But if you feel like something is

1:45.5

purposeless, it's, it's not that interesting, it's not taking you anywhere or impacting anyone

1:52.5

or anything, it's really hard to stay engaged with that practice, especially if it requires

1:58.8

discipline and consistency. And so when it comes to our prayer life,

2:03.3

not only are all of these things true, we have to remember there's also that factor of

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