167: 10 Unhinged Truths I Wish I Knew In My 20s
BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko
Margarita Nazarenko
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🗓️ 31 May 2026
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
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Your 20s are one of the most psychologically violent decades of your life. You're insecure but pretending you're not. You think every decision is permanent. You think everyone else has it figured out.
They don't.
In this episode, Margarita shares 10 unhinged truths she genuinely wishes she knew earlier.. the ones that would have saved her years of being extremely bothered. Because nobody sat you down and told you the truth.
So here it is.
This episode covers the 10 truths nobody told you in your 20s from why your anxiety is lying to you, to why your next glow up has nothing to do with your appearance, and everything to do with your nervous system.
Plus Margarita answers your voice messages on how many kids to have, what to do when your partner hasn't worked in years, and how to stay grounded when the people in your life are used to you putting them first.
If you've ever felt like everyone else had a manual you never received, stuck in anxiety you mistook for intuition, afraid of aging, being alone, or starting over, or like you've been living for everyone except yourself — this one is for you.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to the being her podcast. And on today's episode, I'm going to unveil |
| 0:13.6 | 10 truths that I wish I knew in my 20s that would have saved me a lot of psychological |
| 0:19.6 | trauma, drama and thoughts. Your 20s that would have saved me a lot of psychological trauma, drama, and thoughts. |
| 0:23.4 | Your 20s are a psychologically really violent time, baby girl. They're really hard. And it's a hard |
| 0:30.0 | decade of your life. You're a little bit insecure, but you're an adult. You're pretending to be |
| 0:33.9 | who you are because of like how you used to be as a child and you think that that's your identity but also at the same time you do not value the youth that you have and how adorable you look to the rest of the world because it just affords you cuteness naturally. You think everyone else knows what they're doing when the secret is they don't. 30, 40s, 50s, you don't know what you're doing. I haven't reached 40s and 50s yet, |
| 0:54.3 | but from what I hear, every decision you think you're going to make, you think is permanent. You think you're going to sneeze left or right and it's going to be permanence for the rest of your life. You think one rejection of Troy McGee means that you will never find the one. And then later, you can't even remember his face or who he was or what he does. |
| 1:12.7 | Like literally, guys that I used to means that you will never find the one. And then later, you can't even remember his face or who he was |
| 1:11.8 | or what he does. Like literally, guys that I used to think are iconic in my 20s or chase their attention, |
| 1:18.2 | I don't even remember them. Meanwhile, everyone else around you is privately spiraling too in your 20s, |
| 1:24.9 | but you're not admitting it to each other, okay? And if you're watching |
| 1:27.7 | this, you might be 18, you might be 17, you might be 30 and a little bit late to some |
| 1:33.3 | realizations, or maybe you're 40 and you want to back me up in the comments, or maybe we all have |
| 1:38.3 | different progresses and different growths. Some people who have a little bit more of a tricky |
| 1:43.2 | existence have a quicker |
| 1:45.0 | growing up phase. Okay. So today I want to talk about 10 unhinged truths that I genuinely wish I knew |
| 1:53.6 | earlier because these would have saved me years of thoughts and being extremely bothered. |
| 2:00.5 | My book Unbothered is out. It's officially out. Go and actually |
| 2:05.0 | listen to it on Audible with my hear voice if you enjoy it. The reason I thought of this podcast is |
| 2:11.8 | I was watching a YouTube video of a beauty creator that it just flipped over as the next video of a beauty |
| 2:20.8 | creator that I really used to enjoy when I used to watch YouTube more and I had more time in my |
| 2:25.3 | 20s and she was one of the most iconic beauty creators and she said or a video was titled |
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