What if I want to buy a Gucci purse for a thousand dollars? I don't want to feel guilty because that was money I saved.

Whereas I'm just like, let me just amass all the money as much putting as possible and just avoid it and just forget about it for tomorrow.

Wrong. Meet Christina and Noah. They're in their mid-30s. She constantly worries about

money and he plays the role of the dream crusher in their relationship.

Now later in today's conversation you're going to hear me get really frustrated when they

continue repeating a story about their finances that is simply not true.

They're playing small and the question is can they actually change

the roles that they have created for each other and for their money.

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that we air in today's episode. Now let's meet Christina and Noah.

I had just toured a facility and I loved it and I thought it was great. It was everything on paper that I thought we needed for our future kid.

So I addressed it like, you know, Noah, can we send our future baby to this facility and he was like okay that sounds great

But I knew that it was alarming because I knew the cost and so then I brought up well I've done the math of this and the math is very

alarming because not only is our son's care going to go up like our son is already three

his is going to go up a few hundred dollars a month which equates a few thousand.

But now the babies cost are several thousand more of course and so collectively we're spending what it like two-thirds of my income on child care.

I find that very alarming.

Did you use that word?

I probably did.

Okay. And what did you say? I don't remember that

exact moment but he probably deferred like let's talk about this later. He

wants to sit down and visualize the numbers. He wants to sit down and visualize the

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