165-Why He Became Romantic Part 1
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 7 November 2017
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
You may have thought you chose the right man when you were dating, but suddenly things changed when you got married. He stopped trying. He stopped woo-ing you and just took you for granted. When was the last time he took you on a date? Its so tough to feel that if he just tried a little you'd be happy.
Its an awful feeling. The good news is it can change with these steps. Its hard work on our end, but it makes big differences in the marriage. I was totally surprised to find out the very things I was doing that I thought was "helping" was actually pulling the rug out from under him.
When I gave him advice, corrected, explained and taught him...he took that to mean I thought he was stupid. When I critiqued and guided for next time...he felt the rug was pulled out from under him, criticized and that there was no pleasing me. So why try?
The key principles: husbands want to be respected. Women want to be cherished. Does your craving for real intimacy in your marriage win, over your need to be in control? Lets chat this through in this episode.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring |
| 0:08.1 | wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
| 0:13.9 | Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 0:18.4 | Welcome and thank you. |
| 0:20.5 | I am glad you're here. I don't know where you are in this world, |
| 0:24.6 | but just the fact that somehow there's technology that allows me in New York City, my |
| 0:31.0 | tiny apartment able to connect with you wherever you are and chat about these important topics. It's just amazing, and I thank God |
| 0:40.4 | for it. I'm really praying that this is a episode that really speaks to your heart. It's the content |
| 0:47.3 | that I wish I had had as a newlywed, even as someone who is dating. It's just dynamics of men and women that I did not understand. |
| 0:59.7 | And now as a woman who does, I see it all over the place that women don't understand men. |
| 1:06.4 | And men don't understand women. |
| 1:09.2 | And once we get those things right, we can start to have real connection, real deep love |
| 1:17.9 | and intimacy in our marriage, not just physical intimacy that we talk about all the time, |
| 1:22.3 | which is vital, but depth of intimacy in terms of connection, union as a married couple. |
| 1:32.1 | It's incredible. |
| 1:34.2 | So that's what we're going to talk about today. |
| 1:36.9 | How to be romanced by your husband. |
| 1:39.4 | How to create a romantic husband is what I'm calling it, because it's how you as a wife can change your |
| 1:48.3 | husband by changing yourself. It's pretty incredible the power a woman has in a marriage. |
| 1:56.4 | That's why I love working with women one-on-one in my coaching, because we together get to work through |
| 2:02.3 | the stuff to figure out, strategize, understand, be practical, be practical about what really is |
| 2:11.4 | inhibiting your next step. Is it an understanding around physical intimacy? Is it a past experience? Is it a way of connecting |
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