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Tea with Queen and J.

#165 Surviving Toxic Whiteness

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2018

⏱️ 92 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… We frequently celebrate ourselves our Blackness and our flyness on this show but how do we navigate whiteness? We hung out with hundreds of white people last week and it was scary as hell. This week we give tips for staying moisturized in the midst of white supremacy and even tips for white people who don’t want to be a part of the problem (...just this one time tho). Also: Podcast Movement recap (#PM18), Janet Jackson, microaggressions, several moments in Black hair, diversity vs inclusion, white feminism (again), and the illustrious Migos, Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj #PAYBLACKWOMAN Visit Amalgam Comics & Coffee House @amalgamphilly http://amalgamphilly.com/ Visit The Sable Collective @thesablecollective https://squareup.com/store/sable-22/ NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Visit Max’s Steaks in Philly for the bomb Philly Cheesesteaks and bar: 3653 Germantown Ave, Philadelphia, PA 19140 This week’s closing clip features Amber Ruffin’s #AmbersMinuteofFury from Late Night with Seth Myers: https://twitter.com/LateNightSeth/status/1022859404712923138/video/1 Check out these publications we were featured in! SHADOW AND ACT "13 BLACK MOVIE AND MEDIA PODCASTS YOU NEED TO SUBSCRIBE TO" HTTPS://SHADOWANDACT.COM/BLACK-MOVIE-PODCASTS/ Podcasts: How I Get Through My Days: http://www.lithiumtolashes.com/podcasts-how-i-get-through-my-days/ Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friends Casey and Domingo who help keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, we frequently celebrate ourselves, our blackness, and our flyness on this show, but how do we navigate whiteness?

0:08.4

We hung out with hundreds of white people last week, and it was scary as hell.

0:12.3

This week, we give tips for staying moisturized in the midst of white supremacy, and even tips for white people who don't want to be a part of the problem.

0:20.1

Just this one time though

0:21.2

it's tea with queen and jay people drink up all right we're recording? Yep, we are. My mic sounds nice. Check one. Check two. You say it again, you repeat it. I know. Sounds nice. I'm too young for that kind of hippie-hap. That's not true. So I don't know. You a liar. That's not even true. I don't know what that event is. All right. Okay. All right. Welcome to Tea with Queen and Jay. We are two womenist race nerds talking shit over tea, dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. I'm Queen. I'm Jay and this is Tea with Queen and Jay. Ew was a good solid that was having out in a long time you're right we have not out in a long time it's been like two weeks it's been like two weeks well I was outing because sometimes I'm a bird like that and I just be owing yes there were general owls but we didn't do like a communal tribal owl which, which like we need to do. That was important. Yeah, yeah. I'm glad. We actually should have did that while we were at podcast movement. But she did that to people randomly. Like, A-I-L, and they just would have been like, what are these black bitches doing? And they would have left us alone. We did do that a few times. That's self-care. And with self-care. Okay. So if you like to follow the conversation being had on this podcast, we want you to use our hashtag, hashtag TVQJ. You could use that on all of the social needs. Use that as your heart desire. Yes. That's right. We will like that shit, retweet that shit, talk to you on that shit. So use our hashtag. Also use the hashtag podin, P-O-D-I-N. And that lets other people know that you are listening to the show, people who've never listened to it before. A lot of folks are using that hashtag when it comes to podcasts in color. So please do that. You help spread the word.

2:18.6

Let's do that.

2:20.8

We are recording at ICN Studios.

2:22.2

ICN. That dj is their website.

2:23.7

Visit that so you can look at their content.

2:25.5

They have their own content as well.

2:27.2

Every hour on the hour, they have new content.

2:29.5

And you can also like book time to record your own podcast here.

2:33.4

Okay.

2:33.8

All right? I like that that how the hell are you

2:36.2

i i'm actually i'm like mad good mm-hmm like a mad good and mad happy i'm like one of those

2:42.7

annoying happy bitches what the hell i'm not gonna tell you why because it's on your business but i'm one of

2:47.5

those annoying happy bitches bitches. Okay.

2:52.4

All right.

2:53.9

How are you doing, Jay?

2:55.0

I'm doing okay.

2:56.4

Okay, that's good. Life is good.

2:57.9

People are trying to test me, but I'm a bad man.

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