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visit pleasure podcasts.com. So I am going to

have decided 2024 I am going to stop apologizing not stop apologizing to my husband or like like when I fuck up

apologize but I am going to stop apologizing when unnecessary because I have a

bad habit of that and I think to some that surprises people I had a

therapy session and she's like telling me like like hippo laws or like ground rules or like say we don't work if I don't want to see her anymore like I can tell her and my reasoning if it wasn't a fit and she's like but you seem assertive and I think I give off that because of the

tone of voice maybe how I project my voice but I mean I can be deeply insecure. I don't think I lack self-awareness because I can

see that about myself but you know I give a lot of advice right on the show

the podcast.

And I don't think I'm terrible.

Obviously, I'm not coming from a clinical perspective, right?

I don't have the credentials to be like I studied psychology in college and got my

masters I don't I don't have that backing to be like and there it is factoid, which I mean we can argue about that another time, but facts are facts right and then opinions are opinions and some people have more knowledge and the experience and the education where we trust them.

And believe me, I'm like, I can't really tell me, don't trust me.

But I show up here as a person with intention to help others, to share my experience

and what I've been through and my perspective and maybe using some of that self-awareness and my

intuition to share with y'all hey I think this could probably make your

sex life better this could probably make your sex life better. This could probably make your relationship better.

Didn't hurt that I had two parents that were very intentional about theirs as well.

What was the fucking point of this that I am going to stop apologizing?

Because a lot of times I'll say something and like,

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