One of the things as comics that we do is we bring it home.

And when we bomb real bad and stuff, I've learned that I leave that on the door step.

I don't bring it inside the house.

I actually wipe my feet on the rug outside of, on all purpose weather rug outside of my house and I

leave it out there before I walk in the house because it's like there's only so much I don't do it

every day but there's only so much you can dump into another human being and they're going through

their own shit yeah you know this is also also very common with anybody works in like coaching.

Things where it's like you're winning, you're losing.

Sales is another one that's high pressure.

Yeah.

But it's interesting to hear you say this because I feel like when you go traditional gender roles, right?

And I've heard a lot of women talk about like, okay, if you're home and, and you know your man gets home from work and he's

you know just got home from work they also were like hey if you've been with the kids all day and you're

stressed and you've had a bad day women are constantly being like don't dump that immediately on

the person coming home yeah because they're like that makes them quote not want to really come

home yeah but no one has yet to point out from the other perspective of like yeah how about the person who because they're like, that makes them, quote, not want to really come home. Yeah.

But no one has yet to point it out from the other perspective of like, yeah, how about the person who is home?

And then the person coming home is dumping their day on you.

Yeah.

It's like also the same effect.

Yes.

Where it's like, I would like to be happy to see you come home as much as you are happy to come home.

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