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Living Easy with Lindsey

165 | Don't Fake Orgasms, Foreplay Begins Outside of the Bedroom, and More Tips on Intimacy

Living Easy with Lindsey

Lindsey Maestas

Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Christianity

4.8 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of The Living Easy Podcast, Lindsey Maestas opens a biblical and deeply practical conversation about intimacy in marriage—because God makes all things new, even in the bedroom.

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Sex may not really matter to you, but it does matter to your marriage.

See the FULL curriculum for: The Sex and Intimacy Project: A 4-Week Video Study a His + Hers Workbook for a Stronger Sex Life 

Lindsey unpacks how physical connection is both a spiritual and emotional act of service, not just a physical one. She discusses the dangers of pornography and limerence (infatuation during affairs), how these habits alter neural pathways, and how to create a sex life in your marriage that you don't need to escape from. 

You'll hear about:

  • Why Scripture calls us not to deprive one another of sex (1 Corinthians 7:5)

  • Why the clitoris reminds us that God created sex for pleasure

  • How faking orgasms creates emotional distance and false intimacy

  • What it means to "show and tell" in your marriage — teaching your spouse what makes you feel good during sex

  • How foreplay actually begins outside the bedroom, through kindness, affection, and communication

  • The importance of serving one another in physical foreplay

  • The "microwave vs. crockpot" concept and understanding your spouse's arousal rhythms

  • Seeing your partner's body as a book to study — learning, honoring, and cherishing it as a form of worship to God

This is a conversation about reclaiming intimacy, breaking shame, and learning to experience sex as a holy gift that strengthens your connection rather than erodes it. When we become intentional about how we love each other physically, we build the kind of trust, pleasure, and connection that keeps our marriages from burning down.

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0:00.0

We were never promised that life would be easy, but when we do it together, it becomes much

0:11.8

easier.

0:12.8

I genuinely believe that we have to be intentional about creating a joyful life.

0:18.2

I believe in happy parenting, healthy marriages, long-lasting friendships,

0:22.6

and making perfect memories in imperfect homes. But those things require deep, holy,

0:29.6

heartwork. I am passionate when it comes to sharing vulnerably about the things that people are

0:34.5

not always comfortable discussing, and I am passionate about sharing

0:38.2

practical wisdom that has helped me to help you navigate through life less stressfully

0:43.5

and more purposefully. On the Living Easy podcast, you'll hear honest insight with a biblical

0:49.0

foundation to help you become best friends with your spouse again, to love your motherhood

0:54.1

so much that you don't need wine your spouse again, to love your motherhood so much that you

0:55.1

don't need wine or even coffee, to get through the day and to find hope in the very real

1:00.7

trials and pain that we face moment to moment. I want to challenge you every Monday to live life

1:07.2

with purpose, to choose joy, and to honor God with all that you do.

1:11.9

Are you ready to fight hard for that sweet, abundant life? If so, I would love to do it together.

1:19.2

So grab a cup of coffee and join me every Monday. I'm Lindsay Myestis, and this is the Living

1:25.3

Easy podcast.

1:40.0

Hello everyone and welcome back to the Living Easy podcast.

1:46.5

This is Lindsay Myestis and I am so excited to be here with you guys today because it's been a while since we've talked about sex. And I know you love this content because I created an

1:53.0

entire course on it and it sold out multiple times. So not only is it an area of strength in my

1:58.7

own relationship, I feel like I want to tell people how great it can be,

2:03.1

but I also know how many people struggle with this in general. And so I want to talk about this.

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