Monogmy is a hell of a hierarchy. There can be only one is one freaking hell of a hierarchy right there.

And it's not just in the relationship escalator that you only have one partner. It is that that relationship

is intrinsically supposed to outweigh almost every other a non-care-based

relationship that you have. If you're happy with the same old ways of dating,

if you enjoy sucking at communication,

and you have no desire to improve your romantic life,

then our podcast might not be for you.

But if you want some out-of-the-box ideas to deepen your current

relationships, broaden your sexual horizons, develop a better understanding of

yourself, or learn more about non-monogamy. Then you've come to the right place.

I'm Jace.

I'm Am Elaine.

And I'm Dedaker.

And this is the Multiamari Podcast.

Songs I know I did

forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multie-Amory Podcast, we're talking with Amy Garen, aka Aggie Says.

Amy is a longtime journalist and the author of the book

Stepping off the relationship escalator, Uncommon Love and Life. Stepping off the

relationship escalator is a research-based exploration of the social norms for how most people assume

intimate relationships are supposed to work, as well as the many ways that people are stepping

off the escalator to live and love on their own terms.

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