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Earn Your Happy

164: How To Stop SABOTAGING OURSELVES

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2017

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

How many of you scroll through social media more often than you’d like to admit? Hand raised here! But check this out… My friend, Michael Zeller, just informed me the other day that when you’re distracted from a task, it takes 13 minutes for your mind to get back on track. So just think, if you’re sidetracked even four times a day, that’s a WHOLE hour of floundering trying to get back on track. This is why we must… “Get fierce with eliminating distractions.” These days our thoughts and social media are the winners when it comes to time-wasting. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it’s always bad to spend time on social media, but it is when all you’re doing is comparing or numbing out. For instance, are you really just checking in on Jane, or do you immediately start comparing her life to yours when you look at her pictures? If the latter sounds familiar, I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone, and you CAN stop comparing yourself to others, But first, you have to beat the addiction to comparison (and the other common addictions such as judgment, blame and numbing out). Below is a chart of the common saboteurs and alternative practices you can implement to help rid yourself of those addictions and keep your happiness and productivity high! “You are NOT stuck with who you think you are right now. Don’t believe everything you think – it’s probably not even your through.” Recognize your honest truth (as hard and uncomfortable as that may be) and CHOOSE to see things differently and choose better thoughts. “Your life will manifest around the things you think the most.” In This Episode You Will Learn: How comparison, judgment, blame and numbing out are keeping you from doing what you want to do Tips to replace the above practices Why happiness is your TOP priority Resources: The Bliss Project Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast.

0:11.8

I'm Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project 3 Time Fitness World Champion Fitness

0:16.7

Expert and Cover Model turned self-love junky lifestyle entrepreneur and author.

0:23.4

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a thought that will help you bust through your fears,

0:27.6

connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business

0:33.2

and relationships.

0:35.1

We don't wait until we're ready for someone to tell us we're good enough, we take what

0:39.6

we want and we annoy ourselves.

0:43.2

Get ready to earn, own, and unapologetically rock your happiness every single day.

0:51.5

Are you with me?

0:52.8

Here we go.

0:58.6

Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy Podcast and it's time for another quickie because

1:03.1

there's always time to fit in inspiration and this episode is brought to you by my live

1:07.8

event The Bliss Project which you can find at theblisproject.info and it's happening March

1:15.2

2nd through the 4th in Newport Beach, California and I would love to see you there.

1:21.6

So if you are feeling alone, if you are feeling isolated, if you don't feel like you have

1:26.8

a tribe, if you are ready to take some massive action or get clarity around what it is you

1:32.4

are supposed to bring into this world or just really gain momentum on what you are meant

1:38.4

to bring into the world.

1:39.4

This is where you want to be.

1:40.6

So go check it out.

1:42.2

You absolutely have to be there.

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