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ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

163 | How to Get Your Spouse On Board with Financial Independence

ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

Jonathan Mendonsa & Brad Barrett | Choose FI Media, Inc

Careers, Investing, Business

4.85.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Most couples who discover financial independence gradually optimize their spending. Liz and Brayden flipped the script: after Brayden became a stay-at-home dad, they increased their savings rate—despite losing half their household income. Their journey started with Liz securing over $100,000 in scholarships to fund her education debt-free, then accelerated when they stumbled onto FI principles and realized they could design a life around their values instead of just grinding toward a traditional retirement. Financial Childhood Experiences [00:02:24] Liz and Brayden trace their money mindsets back to childhood. Both learned financial literacy through necessity and family support, laying the groundwork for their later success with budgeting and intentional spending. Scholarship Strategies [00:07:00] Liz's scholarship success stands out: she applied to numerous scholarships with her mom's help, dedicating 20-30 hours per week to essay writing and tapping into every opportunity available. "I had over a hundred thousand dollars in scholarships." — Liz [00:07:16] Brayden learned from her approach, and they both emphasize the power of research and diligence in pursuing financial aid. Transitioning to FI Principles [00:21:11] The couple discovered financial independence concepts and immediately applied them. They leveraged travel rewards to enjoy experiences without draining their income, refinanced their home for lower payments, and sold one car to boost cash flow. "We were set on a retirement path but wanted more than just financial security." — Liz [00:25:52] After thoroughly reviewing their budget, they realized that Brayden staying home would allow them to save more than they were while both working—eliminating daycare costs and aligning their lifestyle with their values. "You can afford anything, but not everything." — Liz [00:31:56] Impact of Parenting on Life Choices [00:34:38] The decision to have Brayden become a stay-at-home dad transformed their day-to-day experience. "Spending more time with our kids has been an amazing experience." — Brayden [00:34:38] $2 Eats Introduction [00:40:10] Brayden launched a new project focused on affordable family meals, combining their passion for cooking and budgeting to make cost-effective meals accessible and enjoyable. Key Resources ChooseFI Podcast ▶ Listen Next: Ep. 164 — Building Wealth While Raising a Family | Essential Listening

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0:00.0

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0:09.6

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0:20.4

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0:25.4

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0:27.2

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0:32.1

and taking control of their lives in the pursuit of financial independence.

0:36.3

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0:42.1

All right, everyone.

0:51.8

Super excited about this episode today.

0:53.7

We're getting the opportunity to speak with Liz and Braden.

0:56.1

For context, we actually aired a voicemail that they shared with us back in episode 136R.

1:02.2

If case you have forgotten that or unable to pull it up or unwilling to pull it up, I

1:06.0

will be playing that voicemail in its entirety on the Friday roundup this week just for context.

1:11.5

But man, I mean, if you hear that, it's impossible to not be inspired by the level of action

1:16.7

that this couple has taken and undergone and the transformation that has had on their

1:20.9

financial trajectory.

1:22.4

Today, we wanted to go a little bit behind the scenes, find out more about their story,

1:26.1

incredibly excited about this opportunity.

1:28.0

And to help me with this, I have my co-s, Brad here with me today.

1:30.4

How you doing, buddy?

1:31.4

Hey, Jonathan, I'm doing quite well.

1:33.2

And yeah, the voicemail that Liz sent in, we were just blown away by.

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