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Delight Your Marriage

162-Why Sex Matters To Him (A Gift For Your Wife)

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2017

⏱️ 56 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

I get so many emails from husbands. I want to send a message to their wives...the wife I used to be. I was a wife who saw sex as

  • Dirty
  • Wrong
  • Ungodly
  • Scary
  • He was sinning for wanting it
  • Too much work
  • I didn't like it / it hurt / I didn't know what to do
  • I don't have time
  • I don't have energy
  • What's in it for me?
  • He's way too interested in sex

And so I avoided it and got resentful that the things I was doing wasn't appreciated. He kept asking me to learn more... and I got angrier.

Well God has changed my heart on this. I have discovered that God made my husband's member, and I am his wife. It is my privilege to be a part of intimacy with him. I am his only means of receiving this vital fulfillment righteously.

I believe this podcast will bring you closer to God. If you're anything like I was, I wish I had known this even before I got married. If I could only understand what sex meant to him. If I could only understand God's purposes for it.

I pray this would be something husbands can give to their wives (when she's ready---listen and practice these 3 episodes: Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157 first).

 

Podcasts I mention:

Praying for you and your marriage,

Belah

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

0:08.2

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

0:14.0

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

0:18.9

Hey there and welcome. Thank you so much for joining. I'm Bella Rose. Nice to meet you. I'm

0:28.5

trying to imagine who's on the other side of this microphone. I wonder if you're a wife who was

0:36.2

asked by your husband to listen to this podcast. And if that's the

0:42.1

case, I would just love to smile at you and welcome you and let you know this is a safe place.

0:49.5

Ultimately, if I knew you, I would love to have coffee and you and I could sit down together and you

0:57.0

could tell me what's going on in your heart and your background, your past, even the difficulties

1:02.6

in your marriage now and how you're feeling about intimacy and why it's where it is. And I know

1:10.1

there's so much beneath what's going on for you.

1:14.2

And you probably think I have no clue how your marriage is or why it got there

1:20.1

or the difficulty you're in right now.

1:22.9

And the truth is, I don't.

1:24.4

There's no way for me to know.

1:32.3

But here's some questions I don't. There's no way for me to know. But here's some questions I might have in case you are at a place where I have been. You might be feeling, if you are anything like I was,

1:43.1

that you're frankly annoyed that he's asking you again

1:49.0

to read something, to listen to something, to change the way you are sexually.

1:55.6

You might be just flat out frustrated, you know, hands on your hips or crossing your arms and being like, come on.

2:04.8

This lady has no idea what's going on in our marriage.

2:08.8

And this husband of mine over and over and over again tries to tell me about sex.

2:15.0

And it's just so frustrating.

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