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The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

#162: I Hold Prominent Positions At Church And At Work, I Have A Pornograpy Problem, And The Shame Is Eating Me Alive

The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert

Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell

Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Self-improvement

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2022

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

The 2 brothers discuss the shame cycle that can come from having a problem with pornography, especially for those who have an expectation of being perfect. 

Brannon Patrick, "The Expert", is co-founder of Therapy Utah (therapyutah.org). You can follow Brannon on Instagram @brannon_patrick. He has some really great online courses available at brannonpatrick.com like his Boundary Bootcamp course. Brannon has a program called L.I.F.T. for betrayal trauma and addiction recovery available online starting soon. Go to https://www.liftforrecovery.com/ for more info!  

 

Tyler Patrick, "The Wandering Therapist", is co-founder of Love Strong (lovestrong.com), a Christian-based Recovery + WHOLEHEARTED living therapy practice based in Cache Valley, Utah. If you'd like to work with Love Strong via telehealth or in-person, reach out to us at [email protected] or go to our website: https://lovestrong.com. We have a great online Foundations Of Recovery Class starting soon. This class is for sex addiction recovery and healing from betrayal trauma. Go to https://lovestrong.com/services/foundations-group/ to learn more and sign up.  


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Check out the full episode on Spotify! https://open.spotify.com/episode/3wxgoYTIpW1j6TtPf9xpER

Check out the full episode on ApplePodcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/162-i-hold-prominent-positions-at-church-and-at-work/id1500794877?i=1000578408880 

Transcript

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0:00.0

I hold prominent positions at church and at work, I have a pornography problem and the shame is eating me alive.

0:07.0

Welcome to the Real Talk Recovery Podcast with the Therapy Brothers. We're brothers, we're therapists, and we know recovery.

0:14.0

Bring your stories, your questions, your successes with real recovery.

0:30.0

Okay, Tyler, before we get into that, I want to share a review. So we got an awesome review, so I want to share it.

0:42.0

It says insightful and impactful. I just wanted to take a moment and say thank you for creating such an impactful podcast.

0:50.0

I believe that we all have a voice that deserves to be heard. Thank you for putting this into the world.

0:57.0

Great review. Thank you. Thank you for reaching out to us and letting us know it always gives us nice little boost.

1:03.0

Yeah, I mean, we've done this for a while and it doesn't get old to hear words like that.

1:09.0

I know that's the thing. I think it doesn't get old for anybody to hear those kinds of words. It doesn't matter how old you are.

1:15.0

That's great. Absolutely.

1:19.0

How you doing, Tyler, how are things?

1:21.0

Things are great, man. We just were getting ready to send our, both of our daughters, our tool, this daughter is back down to college here this week.

1:30.0

So looking at another life transition, but it's been a great summer so far, and we've got some really cool, you know, got another cool trip plan.

1:38.0

We've done with a trip with you and Rex and, and hot rod and our cousin Jeff and, dude, you got a gray beard now.

1:48.0

You got two fake hips and you got two kids that are empty nested. I got, I'm going to pull out the wheelchair.

1:56.0

I like geriatric. I'm in my 40s and the way you just said that it sounds like I'm in my 80s.

2:04.0

Hey, you're, you're heading, you're, you're getting old fast, man.

2:07.0

Some days it feels that way after being pulled around on a wakeboard for five minutes.

2:12.0

Well, I was going to do what I used to do.

2:14.0

I was going to say, like, I say this thing, you know, you do sound old, but if you, if you were to see Tyler and, you know, on the basketball quarter behind a boat, like, you'd be like, man, that guy is 22.

2:25.0

That's not actually true.

2:29.0

You know, I've tried to spend my whole life trying to be better than you athletically.

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