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Hello again and welcome to Four Play Radio Sex Therapy. I'm your host certified

Sex Therapist Lori Watson, author of Wanting Sex Again and blogger at Psychology Today

and WebMD and I have with me Dr.

Adam Matthews, my co-host who's a couples therapist, psychotherapist and president

of NCAMFT.

Foreplay is dedicated to helping couples keep it hot.

Thanks for listening.

Now on to today's topic.

So we're back with more oral sex this time from the male perspective.

And we're going to talk about do we call them blow jobs?

You can call it anything you want if it's actually happening in the relationship.

Yeah exactly.

Yeah this is a big deal for guys. It's a big deal. Yeah. So tell us. Why it is so

important to men I think is such a hard thing to describe Lori and I don't think most guys would be able to

articulate it fully they'd have to think really hard about it beyond just that we

know we like them right and I mean I think that is, and so I'm going to, I'm going to kind of speculate on some stuff here and kind of give you my best guess.

Give us your best guess. My guest guess, my, well, more than a guess, but still, like it's because I think women sometimes

think that oral sex for guys is some kind of act of submission or a way for us to feel powerful

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