162 - FAMILY SECRETS AND SCARY RELATIONSHIP DILEMMAS
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4.7 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 2 April 2026
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
On this week’s episode of Laid Bare, Oloni and Nicky dive into some serious and troubling dilemmas sent in by listeners. From navigating cultural clashes in relationships to unpacking the realities of financial control, this episode explores the complexities many people face in modern dating.
Please note: this episode contains discussions around sexual assault and other sensitive topics. Listener discretion is advised.
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| 0:00.0 | fucker he sits on the corner of the table don't mind him what did you get they've given him two |
| 0:07.2 | warnings at work don't piss me off you're listening to laid bear charlotte i'm masturbating |
| 0:17.2 | i told you i'd be doing that all day to day. |
| 0:24.8 | Because I was thinking to myself like something's not right. |
| 0:26.5 | Then when I went home I said, oh my God, she's a racist. |
| 0:30.4 | Because what do you mean? |
| 0:57.0 | And I'm not going to start like dying on the hill about a black man not being able to get away with what a white man's getting away with because that's not my cross to bear. They're both dirty in their own way, but it was clearly racist. How are you going to say Hugh Hathnot? You know, maybe he's not dead. I don't know why these white people protect. I was going to a studio. Who? Who is this guy? And by the way, I think you've been on his podcast He He hollered me, but I was just like, I don't know who you are. I think his name is. A guy. It's a guy. Yeah. Yeah. Who is he? Yeah, but who is? He's cool, though. Okay. Yeah, he's cool, though. Oh my God, he said something about you when he came on my podcast and I had to cut it out. Really? What do you go? He was like, oh, I think her long time ago, I think O'Holni used to fancy me or she wanted to cane me. Fuck him. Yeah. No, niggas lie. No, no, no. I don't even know. Do you know why he said that? Why? And then when he said that, I was like, what? And I was like, do you know her? He was like, no, but then we had one interaction on Twitter. Like, basically you're, basically you've been like fiery at him, yeah. He thought, oh, maybe she might be attracted to me. I said, I'm so annoyed. |
| 1:45.2 | I went back. I don't know why I'm allowing me irritate me. Oh, who did you go back to? No, I don't go. Hey, God forbid. We're not spinning the block again. Okay, so I went back on the apps last week. So after my essay was handed in, I was like, right, I'm ready to be outside. Let me go meet some men's. |
| 2:00.8 | Yeah. So I downloaded the men. So I downloaded the app back. Yeah. And then I was like, cool, let me take my time, talk to some people. So there was one particular guy. Like, the way he looks like physically, he's a bit of meme. Yeah. So he- You know this thing in the pod by the way |
| 2:16.9 | but go on |
| 2:18.1 | all right cool |
| 2:19.6 | long story |
| 2:20.2 | short we start |
| 2:20.8 | talking everything physically he's a bit of mean yeah so you know this thing in the pod by the way but go on all right |
| 2:19.3 | cool long story short we start talking everything was fine yeah like for two days okay let me maybe for |
| 2:25.6 | the first day like i got a good morning message he even gave me a little bit of life advice that i found |
| 2:30.1 | very valuable like cool a little bit just a little bit just a little bit just a little bit just no no no |
| 2:35.7 | not cover why would I want you to cover I want to see them all it was just your bra was just showing |
| 2:41.5 | it oh oh the black thing okay that was it what's it yeah please look |
| 2:45.9 | long story short we need to HR because this feels very HR-I-Bort. Anyway, go on God. |
| 2:51.8 | No, but I used to talk about your bum all the time. |
| 2:53.5 | We'll be waiting the others to do it. |
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