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Relationship Advice

161: Is Your Partner A Messy Slob?

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2018

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Taking out the trash, washing the dishes and cleaning the room all sound like pretty normal household tasks. However, when you share a house with a partner, these tasks can lead to arguments, resentments and problems in your relationship. Listen to today’s episode to learn how to best communicate and navigate the division of labor in your household. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learn why you need to be clear about each partner’s roles in the household Being honest about your needs and how to share with your partner How to use “I” language to productively communicate with your partner. The importance of negotiating roles throughout the relationship. And much more! Dr. Marisa T. Cohen is an Associate Professor of Psychology, relationship coach, and relationship scientist. Her research focuses on peoples’ perceptions of first date success and consensual non-monogamy. Dr. Cohen is the author of two books, a Psychology Today blog and Love Lessons, a Long Island Weekly newspaper column. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/161 Spark My Relationship Course: Get access to our special offer for I Do Podcast listeners only by visiting: SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Babbel: Babbel is the new way to learn a foreign language. The comprehensive learning system combines effective communication methods with state-of-the-art technology. Go to Babbel.com or download the app and enter the promo code ido to try it for free! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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This episode is brought to you by Deliverer because anything goes this Christmas. Yes, even sprouts on a pizza or gravy on sushi.

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The rules are, there are no rules. Have a Cantonese on Christmas Eve or a faulty on

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Boxing Day and when you're so over the leftovers bring on the ramen from big brands to

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local favorites this Christmas it's all on your doorstep with

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deliver room. Geographical restrictions, Ties and C, service and delivery fees apply.

0:29.2

T'was a night in November at your pal's Christmas party when an elf arrives.

0:38.0

Oh, with a toffee night latte!

0:40.0

Hey everyone, who wants a Starbucks?

0:43.0

Ooy! Same one for me!

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Get the group together for Starbucks festive favorites.

0:50.0

It's IRL season.

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At a Starbucks near you.

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A. A.

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Subject of availability while stocks last. You're going to. Take me to the place in the middle of the sun.

1:17.0

Take me to the place in the middle of the sun. What's going on on,

1:30.0

going on guys? What's going on guys? Welcome to the show.

1:31.0

Thank you for joining us here. We hope you are having a wonderful day. We are just cruising along. End of summer is upon us.

1:42.0

Paul's about to start.

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Yeah, one of our favorite seasons and hope it is beautiful wherever you are listening to us.

1:51.4

We appreciate you tuning in and on today's show we have a

1:55.1

great show with Dr. Marissa Cohen. She is an associate professor of

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psychology at St. Francis College and the co-founder of the Self Awareness in Bonding

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