160 | Why Do We Stay in Toxic Relationships? Stephanie Quayle's Story of Love, Loss & Freedom
Living Easy with Lindsey
Lindsey Maestas
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 26 August 2025
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
When country artist Stephanie Quayle lost her boyfriend in a tragic plane crash, she thought the grief would be the hardest part.
But nothing prepared her for the heartbreak of learning at his funeral that she wasn't the only woman in his life. That revelation shattered her world, and forced her to reckon with the truth: the relationship had been toxic from the very beginning.
In this powerful episode, Stephanie asks the question, "When I was in these two toxic relationships, how did I feel about myself?" "Why didn't I ever question myself?" "Why did I allow this for myself?"
She opens up about her personal story of love, betrayal, and resilience and the importance of who you spend your time with. Drawing from her book: Why Do We Stay?, she shares the emotional and psychological journey of recognizing abuse, escaping manipulation, and reclaiming her freedom.
She's joined by psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. W. Keith Campbell, who helps unpack the red flags of toxic relationships, including narcissism and gaslighting.
Whether you're questioning your current relationship or healing from the past, this episode will offer insight, hope, and a way forward.
Follow Stephanie Quayle on Instagram @stephaniequayle
Follow along with Lindsey on Instagram @livingeasywithlindsey
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| 0:00.0 | Hey friends, we were never promised that life would be easy. Sometimes it is hard and super crazy, |
| 0:11.7 | but when we do life together, we find that it becomes a lot easier and much more fun. |
| 0:17.2 | I believe in joyful life, in happy parenting, healthy marriages, long-lasting friendships, |
| 0:23.8 | and making perfect memories and imperfect homes. I love to dig deep and talk about the really |
| 0:30.2 | raw things that people are not always comfortable discussing. And I'm also passionate about |
| 0:34.9 | sharing practical tips that have helped me to help you |
| 0:38.3 | navigate through life less stressfully and more purposefully. |
| 0:42.1 | We will laugh together and struggle together. |
| 0:44.6 | You will hear honest insights on strengthening your faith and your marriage, parenthood, |
| 0:49.6 | how-toes, and so much more so that you can live life and live it with joy. |
| 0:56.8 | I am Lindsay Maestis. Welcome to the Living Easy Podcast. Hello everyone and welcome back to the Living Easy podcast. This is Lindsay |
| 1:07.0 | Myestis and today our guest is Stephanie Quayle, the author of Why Do We Stay? |
| 1:13.2 | Stephanie has a story that is equally like grief-stricken while also a massive lesson learned in your life. |
| 1:22.0 | And so I'm really excited to hear from you. So thanks for being here. |
| 1:25.0 | Oh, thank you for having me. I'm just, uh, this book being in the world, |
| 1:28.8 | it's just kind of blowing my mind. The best part about it has been the total surrender. |
| 1:34.5 | Yeah. And just going, okay, there's no, there's no explanation except God. |
| 1:39.8 | Mm-hmm. I'm so happy for you. I imagine it feels like a very emotional time in the sense that your |
| 1:48.2 | vulnerable words, your story, permanence of it is out into the world. How does it make you feel |
| 1:54.4 | when you think about that? What you just said permanence is so right on point because what I've, this happened the same kind of, same kind of |
| 2:06.7 | emotions when I put out the album on the edge because that was the first time me revealing any |
| 2:11.3 | of this story, right? The differences with the book, these are my words, they're black and white. |
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