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Hello my loves. Today I wanted to talk to you about a subject that gets brought up quite a bit.

Off the back of last Tuesday's podcast, where we talked about the subject of

playing wifi while you're on the girlfriend's salary slash status, I said that the next podcast

is going to be about sex in a relationship, when you should have it, when you shouldn't have it,

and when is the first time you should have it? The reason I want it to be in this podcast,

and I want it to be a place where you can touch bases because essentially a lot of women have

this question and a lot of women have this issue. So let's address it, let's give you my thoughts

and hopefully it can be a point of clarity for you. Now I am not a deity that knows the ins and outs

of life, but I have come to think and experience a lot of women asking me about this same question

over and over again to have formed a few thoughts about it. Talk about sex, we must address the

context in which we're talking about it. In this one it's not going to be about married couples

and how often you should have it or long committed relationships. This podcast is going to be

about the simple question of when should you do it the first time. There's a lot hanging here

on women on the subject because it denotes a lot of history in terms of we used to have to be very

chased. Does it mean that you are not a very reputable woman? Will it ruin your reputation?

Or have we been liberated in the 70s and now we've got the pill so we should shag everything

like men and it's not a problem. I think my opinion lies somewhere in the middle and because I

position my life and my life revolves around the idea of growth, self-development and instead

of aging, growing better and developing more that is really the focus of my life and the secondary

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