Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired, taken care of, and special, even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.

I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm revealing two cures

for an emotionally detached husband.

My guest Sarah was appalled at her man's health choices because of what he ate, drank and smoked.

She felt his views on raising children could be a deal breaker.

But then she read something that gave her some answers and now

there's been a huge change. She now trusts her man wholeheartedly. She's going to

describe what she did so you can do it too.

Not coming up, but first let's talk about two cures for an emotionally detached husband.

When your husband is there but not there, it's lonely. It's also stressful and exhausting. When you're

there trying to reach out and get reassurance and he doesn't respond, it only reinforces how disconnected you are, which

hurts a lot.

If it goes on for a long time, you feel a wave of hopelessness that it will never get better because that's just who he is.

Then you feel disappointed that you didn't see it sooner before you chose him.

But this emotional detachment,

it doesn't have to be a life sentence of loneliness for you.

There are two ways to cure an emotionally distant husband and you have great power to implement both of them in my experience.

Number one, you can shore up the emotional safety at your house.

When I get the chance to interview the husbands of students who have transformed their once distant marriages,

one of the things I hear from them, those husbands, is that they were intentionally

reserved and distant when they thought it was the only

stonwalling their wives because they thought they thought that they were

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