157 - OPEN RELATIONSHIPS FT ALLY ISEMAN
LAID BARE
LAID BARE PODCAST
4.7 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 26 February 2026
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Oloni is joined by Ally Iseman, non-monogamy educator and speaker, to discuss how to build a healthy ethical non-monogamous relationship, from setting boundaries to managing jealousy.
They also unpack how pop culture portrays open relationships, from Ne-Yo to Hugh Hefner and separate fantasy from real-life relationship work.
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| 0:00.0 | And I've landed in relationships, I start to think, wait, so it's just your penis forever. |
| 0:05.8 | Oh my God. |
| 0:07.1 | That sounds like, I mean, it sounds like hell. |
| 0:09.9 | You're listening to Laid Bear. |
| 0:13.3 | Charlotte, I'm masturbating. |
| 0:16.7 | I told you I'd be doing that all day to day. |
| 0:19.8 | Hey guys, you're with me, O'Loney,nie on Lade's Bear Podcast and I have an amazing guest with me today. |
| 0:25.6 | It's Ali Isma. |
| 0:26.6 | Ali Isman is a modern relationship expert and luxury erotic lifestyle consultant. |
| 0:31.6 | Okay, so when you say like erotic lifestyle consultant, what do you mean? |
| 0:35.6 | Is that to do with toys or is that, what does, like, educate me? |
| 0:39.4 | Sure. So it's my favorite question. So it can mean a number of different things. So folks generally |
| 0:45.5 | come to me. If they're in a couple, they're looking to either open up to maybe explore other |
| 0:49.4 | relationship styles, maybe an open relationship, polyamory, something like that. Maybe they're |
| 0:53.5 | just looking to explore some kinks or maybe they want to start venturing out into the lovely world of play |
| 0:58.3 | parties. So I help them understand what that landscape can look like, make it fun, make it accessible, |
| 1:03.5 | and ideally minimize risk. Okay. Now, I don't meet to say this in a way that's offensive at all, |
| 1:08.7 | but if I was to look at you, I would never assume that that is like, you know, part of your |
| 1:16.3 | worlds. |
| 1:16.7 | How did you get into this? |
| 1:18.4 | Oh my goodness. |
| 1:19.3 | Well, I've been in this space personally and professionally for over a decade now. |
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