Hello lovely humans I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories and everyday

educational podcast for everyday people and their everyday sex lives.

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Our guest today is a white cis female in her early 30s who is pansexual and polyamorous.

Currently enjoying the solo poly life, she is also into BDSM including breath play spanking getting tied up and deep-throating and just like me she loves talking about sex a wellness advocate and host of the podcast the Answer is Elephant from a small town in

southern Alberta Canada welcome Carla Turner. Hello thank you so much for

having me. I am so excited to have you if you had to rate yourself today on a sexual

shame a meter with 10 being the most full of shame and one being the least

shamy where do you fall right now? You know in preparing for this question I

realize I don't have realized I don't have shame. I don't do shame in my life.

I do have some fear around this topic. So I'm sure we'll get into that. That number I put probably around us. We're conquering it, so we're going to say no more fear.

Do you want to give us a fear preview? Sure, yeah. I have this big fear of telling people about my

sexual life and all the fun things that I do in thinking

that that might mean that someone will think that I'm a bad mother.

And yet here you are today.

Holy cow.

You can conquer your fears and it turns out that like people don't actually care what I'm doing in the

bedroom as much as I thought they did.

Incredible.

Oh my gosh, okay, I cannot wait for details.

Can you give us a little overview in that vein of what is your sex life like right now?

Well, you know, like you were saying, sexuality can tie into creativity and creation and my sexuality is very much tie with my creativity.

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