156: Calling in Your Social Capital | Jordan Harbinger
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 13 March 2018
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
One year ago, I had my good friend, Jordan Harbinger on the show to talk about building social capital. Today, he's back on the show to talk about calling in that social capital.
Through a series of unfortunate events with his business, he's had to reach out to his network, connections, and friends and request help in building a new business from the ground up. Without his work in building a strong network in the past, Jordan admits he'd be in a much worse position today. In this episode, we talk about why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea, how to get over asking people for help, something Jordan calls "systematic network maintenance," and how to call in your social capital.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
- Why keeping score in relationships is a bad idea
- How to build a network without the expectation of anything in return
- Why people choose to follow certain people
- How to maintain consistent contact with your network
- How to get over asking people for help
- Getting comfortable with helping others
- Getting comfortable with asking help from others
- The strategy of "opportunistic network maintenance"
- The strategy of "systematic network maintenance"
- How to use content management systems to enhance your social capital
- Specific strategies for building out and asking for help from your network
JORDAN HARBINGER
Today, I have the privilege of introducing you to my friend, yet again, Jordan Harbinger. This is his third visit on the show and every single conversation with him has been packed with value and wisdom.
Jordan reached out to me a month or so ago after having left his previous business, The Art of Charm, to inform me that he was striking out on his own.
I know a lot of you are familiar with that company and probably follow it as well. You probably also know that Jordan had a falling out with the other founders and found himself needed to tap into his social capital, which he's been building for years.
The thing that impresses me most about Jordan is that it is apparent he applies what he teaches and, as much as I wish we were having this conversation under different circumstances, in this conversation you'll hear exactly how he's going to crush his new business venture using the skills, tools, and strategies he's been teaching for more than a decade in the business.
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| 0:00.0 | One year ago, I had my good friend, Jordan Harbinger, on the show to talk about building |
| 0:03.8 | social capital. Today, he's back on the show to talk about calling in that social capital |
| 0:09.3 | through a series of unfortunate events with his business. He's had to reach out to his network, |
| 0:14.6 | his connections, his friends, and request help in building a new business from the ground up. |
| 0:19.3 | Without his work in building a strong network in the past, Jordan admits that he'd be in a much |
| 0:24.3 | worse position today. So in this episode, we talk about why keeping score in relationships is a |
| 0:29.6 | bad idea, how to get over asking people for help, something Jordan calls systematic network |
| 0:35.5 | maintenance, and how to call in your social capital. You're a man of action. You live life to the |
| 0:40.7 | fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back |
| 0:46.3 | up one more time, every time. You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 0:53.8 | This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, |
| 0:59.2 | and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on? |
| 1:04.6 | Today, my name is Ryan Mickler, and I am the host and the founder of this podcast, The Order of |
| 1:08.8 | Man. First and foremost, I want to welcome you to this show. This is the best show in the world of |
| 1:14.4 | podcasting for men, I believe. Obviously, I'm a bit biased, but there's millions of men across |
| 1:19.0 | the planet who would also agree with me. What we're doing here, guys, in case you don't know, is we're |
| 1:23.7 | interviewing the world's most successful men, warriors, athletes, scholars, business owners, |
| 1:29.5 | and anybody, frankly, that is going to help each and every one of us become a better man. That's |
| 1:34.5 | what we're all about here. Again, I've said it before in a world that seems to dismiss masculinity |
| 1:39.2 | altogether. We are standing strong. We are calling men to step up more fully in their families, |
| 1:45.0 | in their businesses, and in their communities. To that end, again, we're interviewing the world's |
| 1:49.1 | most successful men. We're extracting their wisdom, their lessons, their skills, their tools, |
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