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ADHD reWired

156 | A Struggle towards happiness. Moving forward after trauma.

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8 β€’ 937 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 21 February 2017

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

I'm joined on this episode of ADHD reWired by Eric Light. Eric was diagnosed with ADHD as a child but did not take the diagnosis seriously until recently. Eric emailed me that he was interested in sharing his story and I'm excited to let him share his story. In this conversation, you will hear Eric tell his personal story. Eric was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of ten. Eric story involves mental and physical abuse and self-medication. Now that he is receiving counseling and appropriate medication, he is able to work through this past abuse, including through exposure therapy. Connect with Eric Light YouTube Channel You'll Learn: [04:10] – Eric tells his ADHD story. He was diagnosed at the age of ten. He didn't like his medication because it made him physically ill. He started with medication in high school and it had other negative side effects. [06:10] – Eric hid his pills when he was a child. [07:00] – Eric shares his high school experience. [08:07] – Eric self-medicated with marijuana and we talk about marijuana use with people with ADHD. Eric explains how marijuana helped him. Eric no longer uses marijuana and he explains why. [11:45] – Eric talks about his post-high school life. He describes his gaps between high school and college. He explains some struggles he has been through. [17:20] – When he was around the age of four, he was abused by a babysitter. He talks about how this has affected his life. This includes some terrible advice from a therapist. [21:28] – Eric describes the mental and physical abuse he sustained from this babysitter. [25:00] - We talk about the role his abuse may play in his ADHD symptoms. [29:00] – Eric explains how he sees this abuse now, years removed from it. He believes his is normal, based on the circumstances. [29:52] – He has recently started receiving counseling and taking medication. He talks about how this all has helped him deal with the abuse and other areas of his life. He explains how his medication has helped with his counseling. [32:55] – Eric talks about what has helped him the most, including exposure therapy. [36:50] – Eric explains exposure therapy and how it has helped him. [41:56] – Eric talks about accepting the good and bad about yourself through introspection. [47:41] – The struggle and pain that Eric went through have put things into perspective for him. [50:31] – Eric believes that some people take comfort in negativity. [52:20] – Eric sits in the ADHD hot seat. We focus on the social aspects of life that Eric struggles with. Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: http://www.audibletrial.com/ADHDreWired ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group! If you missed early registration for our Spring ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group, for three days only, I am opening my calendar so you can get $400 off! The dates are today, February 22nd, and Tuesday, February 28th. Turn good intention into amazing action with our virtual video-based group coaching program. Go to http://coachingrewired.com and schedule a call if you want to join. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30pm. Go to http://erictivers.com/events. ADHD Women's Palooza If you missed the ADHD Women's Palooza, you can purchase all 36 sessions (including mine) for only $197! Check it out here: http://www.erictivers.com/palooza ADHD-Friendly Guide to Understanding Insurance Go from "WTF!" to "Done!" with our three-part series. Jessica Stillwell will be presenting the information and answering all of your questions. Go to http://erictivers.com/events to register! Want to be a guest? Hey! What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a Coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered yes to any of these questions and you'd like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call here.

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, before we get started with this interview, I just want to give a heads up.

0:05.2

There's some adult language in here, but more probably importantly,

0:10.4

if you have a history of trauma or abuse and if that might trigger you, you might want to skip this episode.

0:18.0

My guest does share some sort of graphic details regarding some experiences that

0:27.6

occurred in his life when he was younger. So I just wanted to give you a heads up on that. So if you want to you may want to skip this episode

0:37.9

or listen it with earbuds if you are around your kids. All right, for everyone else, enjoy.

0:45.0

And I completely blacked out,

0:49.0

I ended up leaving like my body and stuff,

0:51.0

and I just remember feeling just really really sad because I didn't want to die that

0:59.4

young and I felt like I had so much more life left.

1:03.0

80HD,

1:09.0

rewired episode 156. This is the show designed for those of us with really good

1:17.6

intentions but a slightly wandering attention. My name is Eric Tivers. I'm a licensed clinical social worker, coach, and speaker. The

1:26.8

website is ADHD rewired.com. We know that starting is the hardest part, so let's get started. But first, let me tell you about this.

1:39.0

I joined the group because I don't think I've ever been able to finish thing. I've gotten more done in the last 10 weeks. I've made so much more progress than I've ever been able to do and I can see success this time.

1:51.5

If you've been thinking about joining our spring coaching and

1:54.5

accountability groups and you're waiting to pay full price, hey thanks. But if you

1:59.5

miss early registration and you prefer to get $400 off our spring of sessions you can. If you go today

2:06.9

February 22nd or next Tuesday February 28th Go to coaching rewired

2:13.6

and dot com to reserve your spots. Registration is by appointment only and I only have a few

2:19.7

spots on these two days. So don't want to schedule your call. Go to

2:24.3

coaching rewired.com. Spring sessions start April 24.

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