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BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

155: Why You're Addicted To Someone Who Hurts You

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Margarita Nazarenko

Education, Health & Fitness, 821801, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2026

⏱️ 33 minutes

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If you've ever felt completely powerless to walk away from someone who keeps leaving you feeling empty, confused, and never quite enough no matter how much you give, this video is for you.

In this podcast I break down why smart, self-aware women get addicted to emotionally unavailable and inconsistent men, what is actually happening in your nervous system when you can't stop going back, why simply knowing your worth will never be enough to break the cycle, and what identity-level transformation actually looks like and why it's the only thing that breaks this pattern for good.

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0:00.0

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0:38.1

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0:43.8

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0:48.2

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0:53.0

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0:58.2

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1:02.7

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1:08.0

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1:15.3

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1:19.2

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1:26.7

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1:28.7

In this video, I'll be revealing.

1:34.9

In this video, I'll be revealing why you keep going back to someone who leaves you feeling

1:42.2

empty, confused and never quite good enough,

1:45.0

and why that pull you feel towards them usually has nothing to do with love and is in fact

1:51.1

triggered by something much deeper. Through working with a lot of women who were trapped in this

1:56.7

cycle for years, I've discovered that the women who feel the most addicted to emotionally unavailable

2:02.3

and inconsistent men are usually some of the most self-aware, most emotionally intelligent,

2:08.2

and most empathic women in the room, trust me. Which is why today I'm making this video for you,

2:14.9

to show you why most women feel like they can never just walk away,

2:19.6

why simply knowing your worth and all the things you hear online will never be enough to

2:24.0

actually break the cycle that you're in, and how to transform your identity and finally be met

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