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Tea with Queen and J.

#154 You're Too Light Skinned For This

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2018

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On spot of tea episode… Does marrying a Black woman mean that you love Black women? Probably not. Also, skin bleaching and who gets to joke about it - 50/50 chance says not you. And as usual a moment in Black hair and a moment in Black ass life. This week’s hot list: Is Chadwick over it? Black trauma and This Is America, misogynoir is mad common, listen to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast, can you build a house? Can you send reparations via paypal? Queen is running a 5k, self-validation and creativity, colorism, new hair who dis, and Black art, white audience or nah. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS NYC SAVE THE DATE! Join us for our Juneteenth Happy Hour celebration on Tuesday, June 19th from 6-10pm at Von, 3 Bleeker, NYC. Celebrate Black ass freedom with us. FREE RSVP link coming soon! NOTES & EXTRA TEA “Happy Birthday Malcolm & Lorraine” is a play celebrating the joint birthday’s of Malcolm X and Lorraine Hansberry. See the play on May 19th at 6:30 pm at The Schomburg Center for Research and Black Culture, tickets are $10 online: www.cptheater.com Queen is running a 5K! Support her journey and fundraising efforts for Kids Creative at https://www.crowdrise.com/o/en/campaign/kids-creative-15-and-running/naimalewis Check out the first episode of our Dear White People review series “Dear Black People Vol.2 Chapter 1 & 2” https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/dear-black-people-s2-chapter-1-2 Catch up on our She’s Gotta Have It review series “We Gotta Have It” here: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/sets/we-gotta-have-it-teawithqj That cringeworthy Blerds episode of Inner Hoe Uprising featuring J. and Lloyd: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/blerds Learn more about #WeAre: https://twitter.com/BrandonVDixon/status/994691547697504256 This week’s closing clip features First Lady Michelle Obama talking to actor Tracee Ellis Ross: https://twitter.com/_EthanGrey/status/993268253454725122/video/1 Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay.

0:02.1

Does marrying a black woman mean that you love black women?

0:05.2

Probably not.

0:06.3

Also, skin bleaching and who gets to joke about it.

0:09.0

50-50 chance says, not you.

0:11.4

And as usual, a moment in black hair and a moment in black-ass life.

0:15.5

It's tea with queen and J people.

0:16.9

Drink up.

0:17.3

Queen of Queen of J.

0:20.6

Tea with Queeneter Jay.

0:22.9

Tea with Tweeter Jay. My life got flipped turn upside down and i like you're not gonna

0:40.7

go on with me i thought you was remixing it i don't know what you're doing that was it those

0:44.9

are the words i know those are the words i just said i thought you were remixing that

0:48.5

remix okay you know what did he invented the remix i thought you thought you were doing that. He did not invent the remix.

0:55.7

Look, that's what he said.

1:00.3

Welcome to...

1:01.7

Team with Queen and Jay.

1:03.0

We are two womanist race nerds talking shit over tea,

1:06.7

dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism,

1:10.6

one episode at a time. jay said i am queen

1:14.1

i'm jay and this is tea with queen and jay and this is tea with queen and jay oh how are you i'm great

1:20.1

how are you doing i'm all right i am yeah i'm good i'm good yeah yeah i feel good i'm enjoying your new

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