Hi, welcome to home with Havala. Yes, it's a brand new name, but it's a good old podcast

that we've been putting out for the last five years. I can't say it that way. Can I really say that

I've been putting out for the past five years? Maybe a little bit longer? Wink wink. Anyway, it's been such an

honor to be in your ears for the past five years. And if you caught last week's episode, you would find out

what our top episode was per year for the past five years. And it's been quite a journey. I love

getting messages. And I see you guys live at events and you guys love this podcast. You always

mention it as being your go to to get that dose of truth in your everyday life. And I love that.

So today I want to talk to you about something that is really important to me. And to be honest,

do you have something in your life where people want you to talk about it? But you don't feel

like you're killing it in that area or you're an expert. And so you're not sure if you want to

even go there with people. Like if I was like staying healthy and exercising and someone says,

you know, what do you do? And how do you get healthy? You might be like, well, you know what?

I'm working on it. I don't know if I want to be an expert or sometimes people will say to me,

you should do a book on marriage and podcast on marriage. And I'm like, well, you know, I like my

marriage. I work hard on it. But I don't know if I always feel like I'm killing it in my marriage.

I feel like I'm fighting for my marriage. And so am I allowed to actually write a book on that?

Maybe. I don't know. What do you guys think? Some people will say, what about like parenting? And

you know, you guys know, I did a series with Lisa Bavir on Moms of Men. Let me just say I did that

with fear and trembling because, you know, my kids aren't raised yet. The jury is still out. And

God willing, my boys will love the Lord and, you know, live healthy and happy lives. But

to just kind of, you know, be a leading voice in any area always makes you feel a little humble

or humbled in the process. So, you know, parenting, yeah, I'll give you my little tidbits. I don't

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