154 - "My Entire Childhood Was Medicalized" with Scarlet
Gender: A Wider Lens
Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley
4.6 • 961 Ratings
🗓️ 12 March 2024
⏱️ 95 minutes
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Summary
Sasha and Stella share a profound and moving conversation with Scarlet, a young person who just wants “my story to add to the conversation around the impacts of transitioning as a youth - physically, mentally, and socially - both positives and negatives.” A crucial Detransition Awareness Day exploration of the nuances of self-discovery in a gender-affirming landscape.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi Sasha, how are you? |
| 0:02.0 | I'm well, this was one of the most powerful conversations I think we've had on the show that you are about to hear. Yeah it was it was harrowing and it was you know all |
| 0:20.0 | credit to scarlet you know I think he, I think he's a really a beautiful personality. |
| 0:27.0 | Yeah. You know, you know, when he said, you know, my whole childhood was medicalized, he was right you know it feels like doctors imposed a medicalized a |
| 0:36.9 | medicalized life on a young sensitive boy. |
| 0:43.0 | Yeah, so Scarlet is going to share his story of childhood transition from the age of 12. |
| 0:51.0 | His gender questions began to be kind of molded into a trans identity and |
| 0:58.1 | a medicalization. |
| 0:59.7 | And you know, he describes prior to that having kind of a difficult childhood having some autism traits or maybe a diagnosis and being made to feel as though his femininity was pathological from a very young age, including his exuberance and some of his personality traits. |
| 1:18.2 | And so he felt like there was something wrong, you know. |
| 1:23.0 | We don't want to put words in Scarlet's mouth, |
| 1:25.0 | but that's certainly something that you will probably pick up on |
| 1:28.0 | in hearing this interview. |
| 1:30.0 | And just |
| 1:35.0 | let Scarlet take it away. |
| 1:38.0 | first of all, you know, as a child who was medicalized and transition, of course, |
| 1:42.0 | Scarlet is Scarlet's legal name. |
| 1:44.8 | And when we spoke before the recording, I asked Scarlet, how do you want us to deal with names and |
| 1:50.7 | pronouns? And Scarlet said, I want you to just what I said is I try to be as |
| 1:56.0 | organic as I can and scarlet said yeah generally I just tell people use whatever makes you |
| 2:01.2 | feel comfortable and as you'll hear in Scarlet's story, like, especially by the end of it, |
| 2:07.3 | I started to really feel as though I'm just talking with this very lovely sensitive young man who has soft traits and a lovely personality and organically I see Scarlet as a hymn. |
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