153 - Why Smart, Quirky, Artistic Girls Take Up the Transition Fantasy w/Laura Becker
Gender: A Wider Lens
Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley
4.6 • 961 Ratings
🗓️ 8 March 2024
⏱️ 63 minutes
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With Stella on break this week, a solo Sasha welcomes guest Laura Becker who offers insightful and endearing reflections about the misdirected creativity of ROGD girls being channeled into queer theory ideas. She shares some intimate details of her personal story including the impact of chronic abuse on her mental health, her journey on testosterone, her radical double mastectomy, and her decision to detransition.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm on my own today Stella is not joining me, but I am talking to Laura Becker and |
| 0:06.2 | Laura is a detransitioner advocate, writer, an artist who travels internationally |
| 0:11.9 | sharing her experience of trauma and transition to raise awareness |
| 0:16.4 | about psychological issues affecting Gen Z and the medical ethics involved in trans health. |
| 0:22.0 | I've been wanting to speak to Laura for a long time and you may be familiar with her. |
| 0:26.8 | She's a really dynamic, creative, intelligent, and she gave a great interview today. |
| 0:33.3 | So she also has an autism diagnosis, |
| 0:35.6 | which we talk about a little bit today. |
| 0:38.5 | And we talk about how those traits overlap |
| 0:41.0 | with what she calls the archetypalal F-T-M. It's a really interesting conversation |
| 0:46.2 | based on a piece that she wrote. And today she also explains the way in her life chronic abuse led to what she calls complex PTSD and |
| 0:56.9 | trauma and at 19 Laura was prescribed testosterone and she had a radical |
| 1:02.3 | double mastectomy to remove her healthy breast |
| 1:05.3 | tissue. At age 22 she was diagnosed with complex PTSD which included the trauma |
| 1:12.2 | from this medicalization. |
| 1:14.0 | She transitioned in 2019 and has since been an outspoken activist |
| 1:20.0 | known for her unique perspective, which you'll hear about today on things like gender, culture, and philosophy, |
| 1:26.4 | which she writes about on Twitter and her sub-stack funky. |
| 1:31.0 | So I talked to Laura today about her ideas, her philosophy, and particularly this kind of |
| 1:38.5 | architippal F-TM, which I think is a great description of this quirky sensitive creative kid and I also kind of asked her to elaborate on what she calls kind of trauma and wiring and complex PTSD these are ideas I've been diving into and I wanted her to talk a little bit more about that |
| 1:57.5 | from a less clinical lens just so that we could understand what she was describing. |
| 2:01.9 | So she shares a bit about her childhood |
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