Hello lovely humans I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where people who like talking about sex inspire each other with stories.

At least, I feel inspired hearing from all of you.

And I hope you feel the same way.

Our guest today is a 33-year-old homel-flexible Slavic man

who was socialized gay and is now opening up.

He is polyamorous and has a handful of lovers in addition to a primary partner and is

into edging. Neotantra is a sexually benevolent dominant top.

And he was trained as an anthropologist and relationship counselor,

a radical fairy, and also has worked on and off

as a tantra practitioner.

Welcome Dobromille.

Thank you, Wai.

I'm so happy to have you on.

Can you start off by telling us if you had to rate yourself on a sexual

shamel meter with 10 being super full of shame and one being shameless where do you fall today?

I would say somewhere around two so with my friends partners and lovers I have no problem talking about sex. I like it. It's one of my favorite topics. Sex is my hobby. But also I was raised in a place where it was not spoken about. So I still have this feeling deep in me and I can't

uproot it that sex is something we shouldn't talk, something private, and parents come to mind, you know, like if my mother knew that I was sharing my private life with the whole world,

she probably wouldn't be comfortable about that.

But that's also a part of my autonomy now as an adult being to take that freedom to do that.

Yeah, I can relate to that. So I hear that you have some lovers and primary partner.

Can you give us a little overview of what your sex life is like right now?

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