Yo, today's QLD is take total responsibility. Here we go

to the corner of the day show I'm your host Sean Crox and a

Sean Crox and calm. We got Michael Wicked on the show today and he's going to

remind us of two of the major keys of developing your self-esteem and

becoming more successful taking responsibility and having emotional

intelligence. Michael Wicked, he's coming up.

I went down to the self-esteem mist to May of 81 set on a very

uncomfortable chair for two days, probably 26 hours. And Dr. Bill

McGrain, who was also a world-class teacher, shared all kinds of ideas.

I was totally discombobulated, whatever that means.

I mean, I was in pain and I was lost and a part of me didn't even want to

go. And I went down there and you know with all the ideas that he shared,

you know that I only came away with one idea that stuck. But the one idea

that stuck was so powerful, it has continued to transform my life for

over five years. And the idea of the principle was this, it's about blame.

Every human being alive does the very best they can and the only thing

they are capable of doing at every moment of their life with the

prevailing awareness that they have. There's no one to blame.

I'm going to say that again, every human being including your spouse,

your former spouse is attorney, your teenager, your parents, every human

being alive at every moment of their life did the best they could and the

only thing they were capable of doing with the prevailing awareness of the

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