15: LifeRing - Peer-to-Peer Support in Secular Recovery with Jason Groce
The Addicted Mind Podcast
Duane Osterlind, LMFT
4.7 • 655 Ratings
🗓️ 2 November 2017
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Jason Groce stops by to talk about sobriety, dual diagnosis, and the recovery support group LifeRing. For 10 years, Jason was an on again off again alcoholic. He would stay sober for periods of time or attempt to moderate. Eventually, stressors would pile up and he would start drinking. He tried support groups but didn’t find them helpful. 3 and a half years ago, a social worker asked him what he was going to do differently. It wasn’t his first time to the hospital, but he was committed to making it his last. He agreed that he needed to find a community to stay sober.
LifeRing got Jason’s attention. He attended a meeting, and the format worked for him. The philosophy of secularism and personal empowerment spoke to Jason. He’d always struggled with the spiritual components of other programs, and the emphasis on powerlessness and surrender. Most of all, he liked the more conversational structure of the meeting. Each meeting, participants are invited to share about their last week. It can be directly related to sobriety, but it doesn’t have to be. Crosstalk is encouraged. People interrupt to ask questions, offer support, or share similar experiences.
Two concepts undergird LifeRing’s philosophy: the 3 S’s and the addict self – sober self-conflict. The 3 S’s are sobriety, secularity, and self-help. Sobriety because LifeRing is an abstinence-based program. Secularity because LifeRing promotes models of recovery generated by human effort. And self-help because LifeRing believes that each individual’s journey to sobriety is their own, and the role of the group is to reinforce each individual’s motivation and efforts. The conflict between the Addict Self and the Sober Self represents LifeRing’s belief about the nature of addiction recovery. The process of recovery involves strengthening and reinforcing the sober self. The addict self will always be there, but we can do everything in our power to amplify our desire to live a fulfilled, sober life.
In this episode we also talk about:
- The intervention that led to Jason’s recovery
- Atheism and recovery
- Why LifeRing’s meeting format and absence of an organized doctrine are important to Jason
- The differences between LifeRing, 12-step programs, and other peer support groups
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, everyone. This is episode 15 of the Addicted Mind podcast. My name's Dwayne Austerland, and I'm your host. Today, we have a great guest. His name is Jason Gross, and he is going to talk about the community support group called LifeRing. Jason's going to share a little bit of his own personal story of addiction and his |
| 0:24.5 | journey of getting better and getting the help that worked for him. |
| 0:28.2 | And then he's going to talk a little bit about LifeRing's core philosophy and how their |
| 0:34.2 | meanings are run and how you can get more support if you're looking for it. |
| 0:39.7 | If maybe some of the other support groups out there aren't quite the right fit, |
| 0:44.3 | maybe LifeRing can be that fit for you. |
| 0:47.0 | So if you're interested in that, please listen. |
| 0:49.8 | And I really hope you enjoy it. |
| 0:51.4 | Let's start the episode. |
| 0:57.2 | Hello, everyone. |
| 0:58.2 | Welcome to the Addicted Mind podcast. |
| 1:00.5 | I've got a wonderful guest today. |
| 1:02.2 | His name is Jason Gross, and he is going to talk about Life Ring, which is a community |
| 1:10.3 | support group for people who are struggling with addiction. |
| 1:15.2 | Hey, Jason, you want to introduce yourself? |
| 1:17.4 | Yeah, hi. |
| 1:17.9 | Thanks, Dwayne. |
| 1:18.7 | Thanks for having me. |
| 1:20.1 | Yeah, my name is Jason Gross. |
| 1:21.1 | I said I have been sober for the last three and a half years. |
| 1:26.3 | I had, you know, about 10 total years of kind of on again, off again sobriety, about three and a half years. I had, you know, about 10 total years of kind of on |
| 1:29.1 | again, off again sobriety, about three and a half years ago. Of course, so often the case, |
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