149: 5 Ways to Fix a Sexless Marriage

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

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🗓️ 27 September 2022

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Summary

If you’re anything like me, you love feeling desired. When the physical passion is missing or rare in your relationship, it makes you feel undesirable, which is an awful feeling. You wonder if the extra pounds or wrinkles are turning him off or if there’s something wrong with him. Either way, it’s lonely, painful and confusing. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I’ll reveal 5 ways to fix a sexless marriage.

My guest Sofia’s husband said he wanted a divorce then moved out two days a week, and he was having an affair. Her marriage felt like a mess. But Sofia made some big changes, and today her husband is back home and they snuggle and are so close. She’s going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.

The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week award goes to a pithy quote about what strong women do, but it’s actually the opposite of what I see truly strong women doing every day.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired and taking care of and special, even if it feels completely hopeless.
0:22.0	I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm sharing five ways to fix a sexless marriage.
0:27.6	My guest Sophia's husband said he wanted a divorce,
0:31.3	then moved out two days a week and was having an affair.
0:36.0	Her marriage felt like a mess, but Sophia made some big changes and today her husband is back home and they snuggle and they are so close.
0:46.0	She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.
0:50.0	The worst relationship advice of the Week Award goes to a pithy quote about what strong women do,
0:54.9	but it's actually the opposite of what I see truly strong women doing every day.
1:00.6	All that's coming up, but first, let's talk about five ways to fix a sexless marriage.
1:05.8	If you're anything like me, you love feeling desired and when the physical passion is missing in your relationship or if it's rare,
1:15.6	then it makes you feel undesirable, which feels awful.
1:20.2	Then you wonder if it's because of the extra pounds or the wrinkles that are turning him off or maybe because there's something wrong with him that he's not interested anymore.
1:31.0	Either way, it's lonely, painful and confusing. But it doesn't have to stay stuck that way. Here are
1:39.9	five ways to fix your sexless marriage and bring back the passion. Number one, use the best
1:46.9	aphrodisiac on the planet for men. Yes, there is an aphrodisiac for men and most women don't know about it or they don't know what it means
1:56.4	just like I didn't know either in the bad old days. The aphrodisiac is respect.
2:04.0	It's respect.
2:05.0	Respect means you expect the best outcome from him, not the worst.
2:11.0	It means apologizing that you didn't trust his thinking or you told him what to do at work or you told him how to be a dad.
2:19.3	And if you're thinking you don't respect your husband right now because of all the ways that he's disappointed you,
2:27.2	well then you have tremendous power to break the log jam by deciding to respect him again.
2:33.7	Well, how do you do that?
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