149: 4 Questions To Ask Yourself BEFORE You Decide He’s “The One”

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 18 January 2022

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Does "The One" exist?

Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts.

There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper...

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0:00.0	music
0:27.0	Welcome to another episode of the Love Life Pog Cars with me, Matthew Hassee, and the spicy sausage that is Steven Hassee.
0:37.0	Matthew, I got a question for you today, and it isn't why did you just call me a spicy sausage.
0:43.0	Go on.
0:45.0	Do you believe in the one?
0:49.0	Well, you know I don't.
0:59.0	Okay, so let's talk about.
1:05.0	But, no, here's the thing.
1:09.0	Can I permit me to be a little sappy, Steven?
1:13.0	Oh, for Lord's sake, please do.
1:16.0	I don't believe in the one, but I can't imagine being with anyone other than the person I'm with now.
1:25.0	Oh, he saved the day.
1:27.0	No, but that's true. That's the truth.
1:29.0	I always found it really easy to answer that question until you just asked it.
1:34.0	I don't...here's why I don't believe in the one, and it's very, very important as a distinction.
1:42.0	Because it also applies to finding your dream job.
1:48.0	Cal Newport talks about the passion myth in his book, be so good they can't ignore you, or so good they can't ignore you.
1:55.0	I can never remember which one of those it is.
1:57.0	The second.
1:58.0	Right, so good they can't ignore you. That's catchy.
2:01.0	So, he talks about the passion myth, and the passion myth, as he applies it to careers, is that we spend far too much time looking for the perfect career.
2:10.0	Instead of understanding that the perfect career is one that is, it has, let's say, the raw materials to be something that you could enjoy.
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