#148 Tolerance Is Not Enough

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9 • 768 Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2018

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We celebrate trans visibility day and ask are we simply tolerant of people’s differences or have we graduated to acceptance yet? We ask for trigger warnings, and review what the internet taught us about domestic violence. Also, as sexually liberated womanist race nerds how can we give little girls and femme’s the tools to freedom without enduring the trauma we went through to get here? Is it even possible? This week’s hot list: #PodinLiveNYC, building community, mental health, trigger warnings, #TransDayOfVisibility, tolerance vs acceptance, who bears the labor of learning, domestic violence and how to protect one another, the bolt bag, Sesi Magazine, voter suppression, why RuPaul is an aunt and not an auntie, fragile masculinity, and the horrors of tinder and the patriarchy Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS NEW YORK - #PodinLiveNYC is back! Join us Saturday, April 21st at 4:00 for #PodinLiveNYC: Podcast Meet-up, we’re hanging out with some of our favorite Black podcasts in NYC and their listeners at Von (3 Bleeker Street) for an afternoon kick it session: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/podinlivenyc-podcast-meet-up-tickets-44528362531?ref=estw WASHINGTON, DC - *UPDATE The organizers of We The Culture Podcast Conference: The Age of the Digital Griot podcast conference have postponed this event for 60-90 days. We know, retrograde is too real this year* PAY BLACK WOMEN Check out our friend Estephanie aka Cinthia’s new website! Shop art, sage and more at https://www.cinpim.com/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Learn more about #TransDayOfVisibility: http://www.transstudent.org/tdov Trans led organizations to donate to: https://www.blacktrans.org/ http://www.twocc.us/ Listen to these podcasts featuring trans & gender non-binary hosts: Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Thought - https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc Support Marsha's Plate: Black Trans Thought - https://www.patreon.com/MarshasPlate Hoodrat to Headwraps - https://soundcloud.com/user-501838661/tracks Inner Hoe Uprising - https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/tracks Help in the fight against domestic violence. Check out Beverly Gooden’s (@bevtgooden) hashtag #WhyIStayed and support the “Bolt Bag” project and share it with someone who can benefit from it http://www.ellamaefoundation.org/boltbag Send a subscription to Sesi magazine to a child or teen in your life now: https://sesimag.com/ Learn more about Crystal Mason’s sentence of 5 years for “voter fraud”: http://atlantablackstar.com/2018/03/31/heres-happened-3-white-people-committed-voter-fraud-vs-black-texas-woman/ This week’s closing clip features Black trans woman and drag performer Octavia Saint Laurent in the film “Paris Is Burning”: https://youtu.be/Ezc4CnZ8FQQ Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0	This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, we celebrate Transvisibility Day and asks,
0:04.8	are we simply tolerant of people's differences or have we graduated to acceptance yet?
0:09.0	We asked for trigger warnings and review what the internet taught us about domestic violence.
0:13.8	Also, as sexually liberated women's race nerds, how can we give little girls and femmes the tools to freedom
0:20.0	without enduring the trauma
0:21.2	we went through to get here? Is it even possible? It's tea with Queen and Jay, people. Drink up.
0:37.7	Hello? Is it? we need to find you I know I'm tired of Hello
0:40.4	Is it me or a look at me?
0:42.6	We need to find you some new hello songs
0:45.0	I know
0:45.9	That one in Erica I do
0:47.9	And I'm tired of those
0:50.1	Sorry
0:50.6	And I didn't grow up in a
0:52.6	What's his name?
0:53.5	What?
1:27.6	Lano Ritchie? I didn't grow up in a Lano Ritchie house. He aligned itself with whiteness too much so he wasn't in my house. This is true. So I hear you saying that and I think of my mom. Sorry, sorry, sorry. His wife beat his ass. Yes. Well, that was the message in my house too. But I did watch a lot of TV and that song was either a part of one of those compilation songs. Like one of those compilation CDs or whatever. Yeah, I'm sure. That's why I said my head. So let's tell them where they're at. Oh, are we doing this already? That was good. So I figured we keep it. Okay. It's great. Okay, well, how are you? I'm great. Good. All right, cool. Welcome to Tea with Queen and Jay. We are two women is race nerds talking shit over tea. I'm Queen. I'm Jay and this is Tea with Queen and Jay. Am. All right. If you would like to follow the conversation being had on this podcast you
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2:05.7	that's right lots of community you like that better instead of what team unity a little bit
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