You kind of bring your walls of protection and barrier down, which is kind of what I want to talk about today, is all of us have these walls and barriers of protection. We have it all the time. We have it when we meet new people. We have it when we go to a job interview. We have it when we interview people for a job. We have it when we go on a first date. We have it when we're hanging out with neighbors. We don't know. We always have

these walls. We always have these things that kind of block who we really are because we're

scared to show our true selves. We're scared to be our true selves out there in the world. And

that's unfortunate. We can't be that way. I try to tell my kids just be you it doesn't matter who you are

what you do as long as you try to be kind to people and elevate people in this world you've got to

stay true and be to your true self and too many times people aren't doing that too many times people

are being something they're not and look we all are guilty of that you can't sit here and

fucking tell me that i've never been like i have been something i'm not. And look, we all are guilty of that. You can't sit here and fucking tell me

that I've never been like I have been something I'm not. I've got uncomfortable, insecure, and put in positions where I'm like, shit, I got to try to do this and I got to find my way through. I mean, I had identity issues. Losing a billion dollar company, losing $400 million and being a CEO of large companies back, back, back was tough.

It was like, shit, what do I do now, right?

I know I got this podcast. I know I've done some TV with two-minute drill. I got that. But what do I do now? How do I handle life now? And it was really an identity crisis for me. But how many of us out there really, we go through this all the time? the time. Maybe you move into a got a community party you're going to and you're like i don't know anybody there i'm not going to go well i recommend you go but then the problem is when you go you don't talk to anybody and then you get max nobody talk to you and you think they're stuck up but maybe you're stuck up because you didn't talk to anybody i tell my wife this shit all the time. She gets upset with people sometimes

that don't reach out to her. They're like, well, they're going out and doing this and they didn't

reach out to me. I said, honey, that thing swings both ways. Like, do you ever reach out? Well, no. Usually they're the ones to reach out. Well, dude, that's bullshit. Like, it takes two to tango. It takes two to hang out. Takes two to have a relationship. Takes two to be friends. Like, you've got to be able to do it

both ways. Yes, usually there got to be able to do it both

ways. Yes, usually there's a common one or a dominant one that is more aggressive or more, hey, let's do things, more of the appointment set or more of the planner, more of the take the bull by the horns person. But you've got to come out of your box. You've got to sit here because what happens is, is you end up looking like you've got resting bitch face. You end up looking like

you've got resting come out of your box. You've got to sit here because what happens is you end up looking like you've got resting

bitch face.

You end up looking like you've got resting fuck off face where you're just sitting there. And I know I'm unapproachable. Like I just had a meeting earlier today with one of Christian's football coaches, nice guy. And he's telling me, he's like, look, I didn't know what to expect. I was told like, hey, you're going to work with Jason.

Like, you know, he says some things to rub people the wrong way.

Certain parents get upset with them, like all of these things.

And I'm like laughing. I was told like, hey, you're going to work with Jason. Like, you know, he says some things to rub people the wrong way.

Certain parents get upset with them, like all of these things.

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