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Counselling Tutor

145 – Working with Shame in Counselling

Counselling Tutor

Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes

Education, Courses

4.6 β€’ 636 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 21 March 2020

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

External Verification of Training Courses - General Data Protection Regulation In episode 145 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explore shame--a widespread human emotion--and working with shame in counselling. 'Check-In with CPCAB' then looks at the role of external verifiers in counselling training. Last, in 'Practice Matters', the presenters discuss the General Data Protection Regulation and its implications for counselling professionals. Β * BACPAC practice management software for counsellors and psychotherapists is a sponsor of the Counselling Tutor Podcast. Get a 30-day free trial of BACPAC and a 30% discount by using the discount code CT2020 Working with Shame in Counselling (starts at 1.45 mins) Feeling shame is a natural part of being human, and does have a useful function in helping members of a society to live together harmoniously. Shame of this type can be referred to as 'healthy shame' or 'adaptive shame'. However, shame can become toxic, with individuals affected by individual and cultural introjects and conditions of worth that lead to them feeling deep worthlessness. This feeling is often kept hidden, making it especially difficult for people to talk about to others. Shame may reveal itself in the counselling room indirectly via a range of vocabulary and body language, as Judith Lewis Herman describes in her 2007 paper on shame. Ken and Roy explore working with shame effectively in counselling: unconditional positive regard towards the client and what they are bringing is paramount. Normalisation and psycho-education are also important elements in supporting clients who are experiencing shame. Rory has written a handout about working with shame in counselling. This is available here, or through the Handouts Vault and Counselling Study Resource (CSR). Check-In with CPCAB: External Verification of Training Courses (starts at 11.40 mins) Rory talks to Heather Price (Senior Counselling Professional) at CPCAB (Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) about the role of external verifiers. These awarding-body representatives visit training centres regularly (at least once a year) to inspect their standards of delivery (teaching) and assessment. Rory and Heather explore: why external verification matters, and its benefits to students what external verifiers are looking for when they attend a training centre how external verifiers gather the evidence they need how external verifiers relate to students and tutors. In short, external verification involves meeting groups of students (without tutors present), meeting tutors, and sampling internal portfolios. If the verifier is not satisfied with what they find, it is the tutors not students who are held to account. Moreover, the ensuing discussion aims to be constructive rather than punitive, with the aim of ensuring high quality standards are adhered to across all providers. You can find more information about CPCAB on its website. CPCAB is the UK's only awarding body run by counsellors for counsellors. General Data Protection Regulation (starts at 26.05 mins) The General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR), which came into law on 25 May 2018, specifies how data must be managed, stored, distribute and handle data. This issue is mentioned regularly in the Counselling Tutor Facebook group. It is vital to understand and adhere to GDPR, especially if you are a private practitioner and this is therefore your individual (rather than agency's) responsibility. Ken and Rory explore the scope of both GDPR and when you need to register with the Information Commissioner's Office (for practitioners in the UK). Failure to comply with these requirements risks incurring large penalties. Other topics covered in this segment of the podcast include the requirements of insurers and ethical bodies - and the importance of your privacy statement....

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0:00.0

You've tuned in to the counselling tutor podcast, episode 145.

0:05.4

But before we go into today's episode, Rory and I have made this short prologue,

0:11.9

because I guess the state of the world as we find ourselves right now is different.

0:17.5

Yes, absolutely.

0:19.3

Who would have known that in where we find ourselves in this part of the 21st century.

0:28.3

And a pandemic is kind of amongst us. And it's changing the way we live our lives. And it's certainly changing the way that counselling is being delivered. One

0:39.6

things for certain mental health and poor mental health isn't going to go away. In fact, I suspect

0:44.8

it may increase in these difficult times. And counsellors, we need to be more adaptive to how we

0:51.4

deliver counselling in this new situation. Indeed. And from counselling tutor, we make a

0:58.5

pledge and our pledge is that we will gather as much factual information as we can that relates to

1:04.6

students of counselling, practising counsellors, specifically here in the United Kingdom,

1:10.4

because that's where we are based,

1:11.5

so it's easiest for us to get that information. And we will make it available. We'll make it

1:15.8

available ongoing through our podcast, through our website at counsellingtutor.com, and through our

1:21.7

Facebook group, which is counselling tutor. Go on Facebook. You will find us there. And we'd just like to say,

1:28.9

you know, there's been so many questions. I'm going to start with from students of what happens

1:33.8

with courses that have been closed down. Can you study in isolation? And the guidance we have so

1:41.1

far is contact your learning institutions, contact your awarding bodies.

1:46.0

We certainly have spoken to CPCAB because they are a partner with us on the podcast

1:52.0

and they have issued guidance on their website and I've got the website address for you here

1:58.0

and that is CPCAB.co.uk and from their home page there is a section

2:06.4

on COVID-19 update. You can click on that and they've got some frequently asked questions.

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