And so during this war of attrition, your mind needs to win, not your heart.

Your feelings don't get to win over your thoughts.

Because your thoughts are calculating everything around you, your heart is thinking in one direction

just with your gut feeling.

And we cannot trust our gut feeling.

Hey guys, welcome to the podcast.

This episode 144, thanks for coming, listening, wherever you're coming from, TikTok, after midnight,

Instagram, maybe you're just a long time listener.

We drop episodes every Monday morning, I answer your questions.

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We talk about it in long form as though we're sitting in a pickup truck cab together.

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You say, hey man, I want to run something by you and we talk about it as long as it takes

to answer the question.

You could ask me about anything.

The subjects are all over the place and let's get started.

Subtic line of this first one says, my ex keeps talking about me.

Hey Granger, my name is Chad.

I'm 25 years old.

I'm from Southeast Oklahoma, me and my ex-girlfriend dated for three and a half years.

She left me three years ago.

We don't speak to each other anymore.

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