We met with a estate attorney when we had no estate. There's nothing to meet about, there's no money.

So who's going to get all the nothing? But we did that and it was a way of also talking about I was

pregnant at the time like what are the worst case scenarios not just for you but for me

for our kid we had all of those conversations. We had all the medical power of attorney conversations all the end of life conversations for myself, for him. Those are things that people in their 30s don't talk about, typically.

They don't.

And you don't know when you will be faced with making a decision for the person that you love and it is better to

know it is better to know and is it a wonderful conversation to have no but I will also say it is one of the

most romantic things that you can do for and with one another

and to like put yourselves in the feet of a potential future versions of yourselves and say,

if this horrible thing happens, then what?

Hello there friends and welcome back to the Light Watkins show where I interview

ordinary folks just like you and me who have taken extraordinary leaps of

faith in the direction of their path, their purpose, or what

they've identified as their mission.

And in doing so, they've been able to positively impact the lives of many other people who've either heard about

their story or who've witnessed them in action or who've directly benefited from their

work.

And this week I'm in conversation with best-selling from their

work and this week I'm in conversation with best-selling author and podcast host

Nora McInerney

so Nora has written extensively about her experiences with grief and loss, mainly based on the fact that she

mis-carried a child and she lost both her father and her husband to cancer all within several weeks back in 2014.

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