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The Life Stylist

142. The War Is Over: Making Peace With Your Mind with Byron Katie

The Life Stylist

Luke Storey

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Spirituality, Alternative Health, Religion & Spirituality

4.82K Ratings

🗓️ 5 June 2018

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

I worked in the entertainment industry for 17 years, and I grew jaded to being starstruck… but this episode is a dream come true for me. I got to sit down with Byron Katie, whose work and story helped me pick myself up & transform my life.

Katie, creator of The Work, is driven by a single mission: teaching people how to end their own suffering.


Katie found herself at the bottom of a ten-year spiral when she realized that when she believed her stressful thoughts, she suffered, but that when she questioned them, she didn't suffer – and that this is true for every human being.


Now, Katie guides people through a powerful process of inquiry she calls The Work, in which anyone can find their stressful beliefs about life, other people, or themselves & radically shift them. The result is a life changed forever.


The Work is an astonishingly simple process – as you’ll hear in this episode – accessible to anyone at any age and from any background; all you need is an open mind.


Even from the darkest depths of suffering and loss, anyone can learn to trace unhappiness to its source and deal with it there – trust me.


Take these tools, open your mind, and set yourself free.


–Luke


 


Topics Discussed In This Episode:


  • How Luke found Katie (after being dragged there by his father)

  • When Katie hit rock bottom

  • How a chance run-in with a cockroach completely changed Katie’s (and Luke’s) life

  • Coming to terms with the fact that the world is a projected image of our thoughts

  • Our motivation to ease the world’s suffering

  • Katie gets labeled enlightened – but she says, “I’m just someone who knows the difference between what hurts and what doesn’t.”

  • Everything in life is awesome… if you choose to frame it that way with your thinking

  • Sparing ourselves from the desire for approval

  • Our futile attempts to argue with reality… and why we always lose

  • The irony of struggling to win love and approval

  • Why it’s called “The Work”

  • Luke gets completely raw & vulnerable about some resentment he’s working through right now, going through the 4 questions & turnarounds of The Work to show you how the magic happens

  • The life-changing work done at Katie’s Turnaround House

  • A Mind At Home With Itself, Katie’s commentary on the Diamond Sutra, one of the great spiritual texts of the world

 


More about this episode.


Watch it on YouTube


 


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0:00.0

The Lifestyle Episode 142, featuring Byron Katie.

0:07.1

I'm Luke Story, a former celebrity fashion stylist and founder of School of Style.

0:26.6

For the past 20 years, I've been relentlessly dedicated to my deepest passion, designing the

0:32.3

ultimate lifestyle based on the most powerful principles of health and spirituality.

0:38.2

The Lifestyleist podcast is a show dedicated to sharing my discoveries

0:42.2

and the experts behind them with you.

0:49.8

Hey guys, I'm super pumped to share our new sponsor, Biostrap, with you.

0:54.2

This is a wearable tech that very accurately measures your biometrics while you're doing things like sleeping, working out, and even meditating.

1:03.7

I've been geeking out on this device for the past week or so.

1:07.2

I'll do things like set up all my biohacking stuff and do a meditation session or breath

1:12.2

work or whatever and test my biomarkers. So I'll look at my heart rate, my heart rate variability,

1:18.6

all of these types of things and track it and see what works and what doesn't. It's very accurate

1:23.5

and gives you a lot of insight as to what's going on with your biology as you do different things.

1:29.4

Now, I talk a lot about quality sleep on this show, and I find the sleep data on this to be

1:35.6

really thorough and very accurate. So I wear this wristband while I sleep, and I'm kind of in a

1:41.9

competition with myself to see how much quality sleep I can get.

1:46.1

So it's really fun to wake up in the morning and kind of check and see, I went to bed a little

1:50.3

late. Oh, I only had this much deep sleep. I had this much REM sleep. This was my resting heart

1:55.3

rate, all of this stuff. So it's very cool. I'm using it for a multitude of different things.

2:00.0

One thing that I haven't even really gotten into at this point, but will very soon, is actually

2:05.3

programming different workout routines into it and seeing what's going on with my biomarkers

2:10.2

while I'm doing different workouts and ice bats and all kinds of crazy stuff.

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