So I got to tell you, Rhett, you're either going to drag this out for a year or another two years

you're going to do that or you're going to realize soon

The fighting's not worth it. Life is too short

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We're going to walk through your questions. Real time, long form, no notes, no edits, no cuts.

I don't know what's coming at me and I'm going to talk through it as though as though me and your

friends and you ask me for advice. I might not have the right advice but I'm just going to tell you

what comes to my mind when I first read this. If you want to be on this podcast with your question

email GrangerSmith podcast at gmail.com and I'm going to get to the list here today. The first

question subdecline says this little slash big thing my husband does. It says I'd like to stay

anonymous. I've been married to my husband for 12 years. He proposed to me within the first year of that

and we were together. Everything seemed perfect. He seemed head over heels for me and for some reason

during this time things changed. He started struggling and reliving the past when I say the past.

I mean it's mostly things events people that were prior to me. He struggles with condemning

himself for our children not having as good a life as he had when he was younger. He relives in

longs for the vehicles money and good times he had before he was with me. The big thing is he has

confessed feeling guilty for things he did to his girlfriend and often things of ways to fix what

he did back then to her. He's reached out to her before and even kept pictures and special things

from her in our garage. It's gotten to the point where I could feel or sense when he's thinking

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