How do you expect to have a great relationship if you can't even maintain standards of self?

You don't even have a great relationship with yourself.

You cannot have excellence in your relationship if you don't have excellence in self.

Welcome to the Bedroes Koolian Show.

What's the difference between me and you? Back when Q was rolling with Lorenzo and a Benzo, I was banging with a gang of instrumental.

What if I said that you can have anything you want in life if you can master this one thing?

Now I know what you're thinking, you're probably thinking the one thing that I need to master to have. Everything I want in life if you can master this one thing. Now I know what you're thinking. You're probably

thinking the one thing that I need to master to have everything I want in life is discipline

because these guys always talk about discipline. But what if I told you it's not discipline?

In fact, the one thing that you need to focus on is standards. And let me plea my case here,

guys. Welcome to the Bedrose Coolean show.

I'm Bedros Cooley. And today's episode is about the one thing that you need to develop to achieve anything

and everything you want in life from health, fitness, relationships, money, faith, purpose,

passion, and life.

And you would think that it would be discipline.

And in the past, of course, I've told you it's disciplined in terms of discipline, focus, consistency, and delayed gratification. And I still

stick to that. But discipline, focus, consistency, and delayed gratification are only a byproduct

of your standards, right? Because your standards determine your status in life. Let's face it, you may not like hearing that,

but your standards do determine your status in life. So let me break this down for you for a moment.

I want to tell you a story that I think will draw a very beautiful parallel to what I mean when I say

you've got to start setting higher standards for yourself. And if you're struggling in life,

if you're having financial problems, if you're not happy

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