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Struggle Care

139: Pausing Your Career to Stay at Home (A Resource for Women Who Aren't Tradwives)

Struggle Care

KC Davis

Self-improvement, Education

4.8750 Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Struggle Care, host KC Davis speaks with Neha Ruch, founder of Mother Untitled and author of The Power Pause. Together, they explore the reality of modern motherhood, particularly for women who decide—or feel compelled—to pause their careers to care for their children. This conversation addresses the outdated stereotypes of stay-at-home moms and offers empowering, practical insights for navigating this unique chapter with confidence and clarity. Show Highlights: Neha’s personal story behind writing The Power Pause What the “tradwife” movement misses—and who this book is really for Why "stay-at-home mom" is an outdated and limiting term How women can redefine productivity, identity, and success during a career pause The hidden costs of idealized motherhood in media and social platforms A breakdown of the personal, professional, and family goals women can set while caregiving Financial planning tips and why couples must prepare for the pause together The role of privilege, budgeting, and honest conversations with your partner How to reclaim agency and dignity during motherhood—without losing ambition Why it’s time to rewrite the narrative of caregiving and career on your own terms Resources and Links: 📘 The Power Pause by Neha Ruch – Available wherever you get your books 🌐 Mother Untitled Website – Free resources including financial prep, postnups, and return-to-work guidance 📱 Follow Neha on Instagram Connect with KC Davis: 🌐 Website 📱 TikTok | Instagram | Facebook 📘 How to Keep House While Drowning Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.8

Amazon offers term time working to their employees, like Anton,

0:07.4

who's home to look after his daughters during their holidays.

0:10.0

Hello!

0:10.8

To him, this is the best sound in the world.

0:17.2

Actually, maybe that's the best sound of all.

0:23.1

Now that's term time working.

0:24.5

Offered at Amazon.

0:26.8

Ten weeks off guaranteed per year.

0:29.0

Mix of paid holiday and unpaid time off.

0:29.8

Conditions apply.

0:37.2

Hello, you sentient balls of stardust. Welcome to struggle care. Your host, Casey Davis. I am here to talk with Nehaw-Rouche. We're going to talk about the power of pause, which is her new book, about going through that period of motherhood where you make the decision or perhaps feel forced to make the decision to quit your job,

0:56.8

pause your career, stay at home with kids for a time frame. Neha, thank you so much for being here.

1:03.6

Oh, thanks for having me. I've so admired your work for so long, so this is an honor.

1:08.6

Well, I've looked at your book and I wish I would have had it

1:12.6

when I had decided to stay home with my kids. You know, the loss of identity and figuring out your

1:18.2

footing and your routine and all this kind of stuff like that really and worrying about your

1:21.8

career. Like that is exactly what your book is about. That's exactly what I had to fumble through.

1:28.7

And here's where I really wanted to start because this is what I love about your book. I want to talk for a second about

1:32.1

tradwives because especially with the cultural moment that we're having, I feel like there's this

1:39.3

interesting polarization where we really have kind of like the rise of tradwives in this conservative

1:46.4

era that are talking about, oh, motherhood is the best thing you could do and really just

1:51.7

focus on your family. And it's, you know, that's just so enlightened and so beautiful.

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