People have the failure to accept significant incompatibilities between themselves and their partner because they believe like, oh, well, but we love each other so it's going to work out somehow.

If you're happy with the same old ways of dating,

if you enjoy sucking at communication

and you have no desire to improve your romantic life,

then our podcast might not be for you.

But you want some out of thebox ideas to deepen your current relationships,

broaden your sexual horizons, develop a better understanding of yourself, or learn more

about non-monogamy, then you've come to the right place.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily.

And I'm Dettiker.

And this is the multi-ammery podcast. I did

force a meter for myself to fit

on this episode to fit

on this episode of the multi-amory podcast we're talking about the fact that love is not enough. We will also be addressing some of the dangers of magical thinking and addictive thinking and ways that we've been taught to believe that these things are good

That love is not all you need

Okay, so can I just say this episode's a doozy, right? And I feel a little apprehensive about digging into this because I can just see the headlines now that like

multi-ammer dot com hates love

multi-amory dot com says you should never fall in love with anybody multi-amory

com wants to poop all over love like like I can just see it right now.

That's clearly not what we're all about though, although apparently we hate that Beach Boys song.

John Lennon said it was the best song ever written.

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