139. How NOT to Find a Quality Man on a Dating App

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Did you know online dating is a billion-dollar business? Suzanne talks about how women can use these dating sites to their advantage by recognizing the deep differences between what women want and what men want when it comes to love and commitment.

IN THIS EPISODE:

2:15 Men are twice as active on dating apps as women are

3:15 Your education/job status are not what makes you attractive to men

4:00 The criteria men and women use to choose a partner have not changed at all

6:00 An experiment by John Townsend, Ph.D. shows how women and men choose partners

8:20 Men are indifferent to women’s status

9:30 What is a selling point to a man: your looks, your demeanor and your attitude towards marriage and children

10:45 How do you want to present yourself ?

12:00 It should serve as a warning to women that when you find a man who endlessly praises you for your career and your job he's most likely just looking to hook up or is wanting you to take care of him financially

13:15 What women should do w dating apps

Transcript

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0:00.0	From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Benker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.
0:16.2	Join us here every week as we challenge the culture's hugely flawed narratives on men, women, sex, and love.
0:23.3	From coast to coast and from around the world, thank you for joining us.
0:30.4	Did you know that online dating is a billion dollar business?
0:37.8	Well, stay tuned because we're going to talk about how women can use these dating
0:41.6	sites to their advantage by recognizing the deep differences between what women want and what
0:47.6	men want when it comes to love and commitment.
0:54.8	So roughly 15 million Americans say they have or continue to use websites or mobile dating
1:01.5	apps in their pursuit of romance.
1:04.9	Now, technically, these dating apps are used for both hookups, which I don't know
1:10.4	anybody would want to do that, but okay,
1:12.3	or marriage or long-term relationships.
1:16.5	For women who are looking for commitment, which I would argue is most women who are using
1:21.5	dating apps, even if they pretend otherwise, what are the ways you can weed out the men
1:26.5	who are just there looking for a rump in the hay?
1:32.4	Well, let's begin by addressing what not to do.
1:36.7	So for an example, I pulled something from this San Francisco dating app called
1:41.8	Coffee Meets Bagel.
1:45.1	And this website has a tagline that says,
1:49.1	Meet Singles Looking for Real Relationships.
1:52.8	Okay, for real relationships.
1:54.3	So let's assume this is not a hookup dating app like, I think that's Tinder.
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