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Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

138. You Get to Want What You Want in Dating & They Do Too

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.83.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2022

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, I'm talking about something that could be triggering for some. The episode revolves around the idea that we're allowed to want what we do, but our dating counterpoints are allowed that same privilege.

Sometimes we have criteria for those that we date or that we want to be in a relationship with, but then when they have their own set of preferences, it becomes seemingly shallow. I'm here to tell you that those preferences say nothing about you, and they shouldn't be taken as such.

The topics I cover are:

  • Why People's Desires Aren't About You
  • How to Stop Attaching Yourself to People's Preferences
  • Respecting Your Partner's Desires

Gaining an understanding of this fact can really help you look for the person that desires exactly who you are and what you have to offer.

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EPISODE RESOURCES:

Enroll in Dating with Certainty — an online gala event where you learn how to get clear on the standards that truly matter to you in dating so that you can attract the type of man you desire to be in a relationship with: http://beatricekamau.com/datingwithcertainty 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Our personalities are true essence is what cultivates relationships with other people.

0:06.4

Is what deepens relationships with other people.

0:08.6

But in the same breath, do you feel you honor yourself and your body when you leave the house?

0:16.3

Or are you like, who I used to be, which is throwing a hoodie, throwing whatever,

0:20.2

like the t-shirt that I left on the chair from the last night, throwing on and get out the house and go.

0:26.7

And feel horrible about myself.

0:29.2

When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you feel, do you just throw stuff on, get ready in five minutes,

0:35.0

and feel horrible, or do you take time and adorn yourself, adorn your body and honor it?

0:43.4

Hi, I'm Beatrice. I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a match of stand,

0:48.3

and the creator of the self-love over-code dependency program.

0:52.3

This podcast is all about helping you move from shame, people pleasing,

0:57.2

codependency, and low self-esteem, and fully into alignment, expansion,

1:04.2

and unapologetic self-love through healing the inner child's spirituality and manifestation.

1:12.1

Now, I won't lie in addition to the last tears and the joy.

1:17.7

You may be triggered from time to time when tuning in.

1:21.0

But these triggers will lead to a deep dive into who you really are,

1:27.1

all you desire, and the confidence to demand more out of your life.

1:32.6

Welcome to the self-love fix, where you get your dose of self-love tips.

1:40.6

Hello, and welcome back to the self-love fix podcast.

1:44.6

My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host, and happy new year.

1:49.7

I know we are six days into the new year, but it's the first podcast episode of 2022,

1:58.2

so I just want to wish you a happy new year.

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