I being a medical trainee for the last eight years have sort of been living almost paycheck to paycheck and thankfully Mel has been really supporting me for the last three years and now I'm at a point where I'm about to be complete with my training and I will be a significantly higher earner.

I don't think there's anything that can take away the anxiety of what we've been through over the last few years.

I think once I make a full partner it would probably be somewhere around 55 to 60k months.

Mel, do you accept that this financial change is happening?

That the household income you are about to get regardless of what

job Babu chooses is real.

What makes it difficult to accept is that I can never make that amount of money ever.

Even if I decided to open up my own private practice, I could never, ever again be the one that

supports the house financially.

Meet Mel and Bobboo.

They're both 33-year-old doctors worrying about how to make an important career decision

that's going to change their financial lives forever.

Babu's about to finish his training and he wants to work in one area but Mel is not

on board. What you're going to see in today's conversation is that Mel and Babu have a very

specific way of thinking and that way of thinking has helped them excel in their careers,

but when it comes to these unstructured decisions, like where to work, they are paralyzed.

I specifically wanted to talk to them because a lot of us think about life in a certain way and it's actually helped

us become successful but when we face other situations where we have to think in a

totally different way we also get stuck. It's the beginning of the year a perfect time to think

about what you want your rich life to be this year. Where do you want to spend more

money? Where do you want to cut or redirect your spending?

Now a few weeks ago in my newsletter I shared how to do an end of the year rich life review.

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