138: Jealousy, Relationship Sabotage, and the MOST Attractive Strategy for Dealing With Insecurities
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 3 November 2021
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about:
- Why comparing yourself to your partner's ex's is such a losing game
- How to escape the trap of comparison
- The value vs. the danger of talking about your insecurities (and why many men struggle with this)
- How to be attractive without needing to be perfect
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello lovely listener and welcome to the first podcast of the rest of your life. |
| 0:05.4 | I am Stephen Hussey of course and welcome to this episode and hey I've got a question for you. |
| 0:11.1 | Have you ever had that moment where you get a flash of insecurity when you're dating someone |
| 0:16.3 | or in a relationship and you wonder should I be honest right now and talk about this thing that |
| 0:22.0 | is making me feel a bit needy or jealous or just in need of some reassurance or if I say that |
| 0:28.3 | is it going to send them running a mile is it going to turn them off heaven forbid and should I |
| 0:33.0 | just suck it up and deal with my stuff on my own. This is one of the issues that Matthew and I |
| 0:38.7 | dive into in today's episode and we also talk about the topic of comparison. If you have found |
| 0:44.4 | yourself comparing yourself to your partners, X's or even just their imagined X's in your head |
| 0:51.7 | or people they might potentially be attracted to. Lord knows there's a lot of opportunity to do this |
| 0:57.0 | in today's world and Matt and I talk about some solutions so that you don't get stuck in this |
| 1:02.8 | happiness sapping trap of constant comparison. Also just before we begin we have some very special |
| 1:11.9 | news. We have officially announced the date of our next virtual retreat. It is the first retreat |
| 1:20.2 | of 2022 March 18th to the 20th and as a special offer just for this month so ending this month |
| 1:30.0 | November 30th we are doing an early bird discount so instead of the usual retreat price of $795 |
| 1:38.0 | we are doing it this month for $595 so if you know that you want to take your personal growth |
| 1:45.9 | seriously you know you want to book something in for next year to work on your confidence maybe |
| 1:50.8 | you feel stuck right now in your relationships or your goals and you're not really sure what |
| 1:56.3 | direction you should be pointing in and you want to figure out how to manage your emotions and |
| 2:01.1 | yourself a steam and everything else come and join us and you can do that at MHVertualRetreat.com |
| 2:08.8 | and again that 30% discount that price of $595 it will end and go up after November 30th so |
| 2:17.7 | if you know you want to get on board now go and lock in that price at MHVertualRetreat.com |
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