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But, you want some out-of-the-box ideas to deepen your current relationships,

broaden your sexual horizons, develop a better understanding of yourself, or

learn more about non-monogamy, then you've come to the right place. I'm Jace.

I'm Amelaine.

And I'm Dedicur.

And this is the Multiannary Podcast.

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On this episode of the Multieammery podcast we're talking about healing old wounds and

resentment in relationships. So some fights in relationships resolve really quickly right after they happen.

Some can escalate and last for a while, like a week or a couple weeks, but some hurts,

the ones we're talking about today, continue to last in a relationship for months or even years

after it's actually been resolved that those hurts still last.

And what we mean by an old wound is like a conflict or hurt that continues to be brought up or rehashed over the span of maybe even many months or even years.

And all three of us have examples of this not just with each other but

also with other partners. So this has definitely happened in our lives and I'm

assuming it's probably happened in yours as well.

Dear listener out there.

That's the thing about being in long-term relationships as human beings is you develop a lot of history and

ideally most of it's good history that you share together but

sometimes it can mean that these wounds and these hurts can develop and

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